Talking Season

 

Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear. And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you. (Ephesians 4:29-32 ESV).

 

It seems that we have entered another peak of what I often call “talking season.” You know, it’s that time in our calendar when there are lots of people talking, but few who are saying anything with hope and encouragement for the future. I do not know who took the photo accompanying today’s devotional, but it perfectly describes how I feel at times when I’m listening or reading various folks in their response to the various circumstances of our world. I often think it would be nice to be able to simply reach out and shut their mouths before anything else comes out.

 

Knowing that is not possible, perhaps a simple list from the Scripture might be helpful to all of us as we think about the nature and character of our speech. The Apostle Paul gives us some clear instruction:

 

§  First, we should speak words of encouragement. When someone tells me I am doing a good job, that I am on the right track, that I have done something important, their words strengthen me for accomplishing more good things. “Atta-boys” are always more welcome than correction.

 

§  Second, sincere compliments build us up. When people say that I gave a wise answer to their question, that my example was an inspiration to them, or that somehow I changed the course of their life, I rejoice in knowing God is at work through me.

 

§  Third, thanksgiving must always be a part of our vocabulary. Read the first few verses of the Apostle Paul’s letters to churches and individuals. Quite often, after he wishes them grace and peace, he thanks God for them. There were several difficulties Paul wanted to straighten out with the church in Corinth, but he still expressed gratitude for the spiritual gifts they were using. He encouraged them with promises of God’s faithfulness.

 

Use your words to build up. Apply grace liberally in your communications with others.