O simple ones, learn prudence; O fools, learn
sense. Hear, for I will speak noble things, and from my lips will come what is
right, for my mouth will utter truth; wickedness is an abomination to my lips. All
the words of my mouth are righteous; there is nothing twisted or crooked in
them. They are all straight to him who understands, and right to those who find
knowledge. Take my instruction instead of silver, and knowledge rather than
choice gold, for wisdom is better than jewels, and all that you may desire
cannot compare with her. I, wisdom, dwell with prudence, and I find knowledge
and discretion.
(Proverbs 8:5–12 ESV).
The word prudence is not one we use or hear very often. But the book of Proverbs has a great deal to say about it. Prudence can be defined as the ability to discipline yourself, to manage your affairs well, and to discern and have good judgment. We need prudence so that we can make good decisions and not act rashly or too quickly without first considering the costs or consequences.
In Proverbs, Wisdom calls everyone to
gain prudence. We should act with discernment, thinking carefully even if our
intentions are good. For example, it can be good to give money for important
causes, but we should first pray and discern how and where to give it so that
we can be sure our gifts are distributed well.
Jesus encouraged his disciples to have
prudence. He says in the Gospel of Luke that if you want to build a tower,
“won’t you first sit down and estimate the cost to see if you have enough money
to complete it?” (Luke 14:28). In a similar way, Jesus wants us to assess the
cost of being his disciple. We need to consider his words and discern his ways
so that we can confidently follow his example and set our hearts on him.
One of the key elements of gaining and
using prudence is in the intentional development of our minds. That is done
through consistent study and mentoring. If you do not have a trusted mentor,
pray that God will unmistakably lead you to that person. Through the years I
have had great mentors as well as been a mentor to others. Think of such a
person as your “coach” in the spiritual realm. Then, as you become more adept
in using your gifts and talents, you will find prudence becoming a natural
behavior.






