The Simple Life - Pt. 2

 

Do you not know that in a race all the runners run, but only one receives the prize? So run that you may obtain it. Every athlete exercises self-control in all things. They do it to receive a perishable wreath, but we an imperishable. So I do not run aimlessly; I do not box as one beating the air. But I discipline my body and keep it under control, lest after preaching to others I myself should be disqualified. (1 Corinthians 9:24-27 ESV).

 

I’ve read a wonderful definition of “simplicity”: “Simplicity is clarity, purpose and intentionality. It is marked by the intentional promotion of the things we most value and the removal of everything that distracts us from it.”  (Joshua Becker, Inside-Out Simplicity). The simple life then, is not merely a less stuff. It is a life focused on our values, which ultimately lead to intentional practices in our daily life chosen to pursue those values. It is the distractions of life regardless of how “good” they may be. When embracing simplicity we can rid ourselves of distractions so that we can live out our values instead of being diluted and ineffectual. It isn’t deprivation, it’s streamlining so that we can win the prize.

 

So, the first step in living this simple life is to define our values. That begins with a serious look at what we really want in life. This will lead us to determine what the most important things are in our life. I often suggest that doing this kind of personal inventory be written. After developing “the list,” start ranking them in order of importance. Much of the time we fail to understand what the “list” includes.” Core values ought to begin with the people in our lives. Imagine six concentric circles. You are the inner most circle. Our first value deals with our relationship to Jesus. He is the center with us. From there, label your circles in-to-out in this order: spouse; children; extended family; friends, and others.

 

Do you notice there isn’t any “stuff” on the list? That’s because stuff is unnecessary to prioritize in living this simpler life. Additionally, it is vital that we recognize all our decision must be made working from the inside to the outside of the concentric circles. Every decision should be made based on it affect to those in our circles of value. If my friends request adversely affects my relationship with my spouse, children, or extended family then the decision to give time or energy to it is negative. Typically we operate on the basis of the loudest voices, which are usually coming from the outside circles of value. Living a life where you only “grease the squeaky wheel” leads to destruction. Simplicity, or balance, can only be achieved by living a life when we choose that which is of the highest priority. As you look at your list, are there some values that are out of order? Make a decision to change.