Contentment - Pt 2

I rejoiced in the Lord greatly that now at length you have revived your concern for me. You were indeed concerned for me, but you had no opportunity. Not that I am speaking of being in need, for I have learned in whatever situation I am to be content. I know how to be brought low, and I know how to abound. In any and every circumstance, I have learned the secret of facing plenty and hunger, abundance and need. I can do all things through him who strengthens me. (Philippians 4:10-13 ESV).

If you’ve known Mary and I for anytime at all, you also know our place of serenity is found in the Smoky Mountains. There are lots of reasons for that. The natural beauty and simple quiet of the mountains is a big part of that. We try to get back there at least once a year now that we live in Texas and the distance is a bit further than our years in Middle Tennessee. It’s something of a mystery to me how the tradition began. However, I do know the results. We can listen better there than any other place we’ve been. We’re planning a trip soon! The problem with this strategy in overcoming anxiety and self-doubt is how difficult it is to take it with you into daily life. The real strength comes from the Holy Spirit who is within us most powerfully. Geography and circumstance can make tapping into that strength easier; however, these outward circumstances are poor motivators by themselves compared to the power of God within us. The key is in learning to hear the voice of God telling us His truth. So, when fear starts to whisper lies, here are three simple strategies to tune out the doubts and give a voice to the real you: 1. First, pay attention to your words and the way that you talk about yourself. Phrases like, “I could never,” “I’ll probably mess it up,” or the ever present “I’m sorry,” need to be erased from the autoplay list in our mind. Adopt a different strategy: If you wouldn’t say it to someone you love, don’t say it to yourself. 2. Second, find a small way to break a habit of safety. You cannot grow what you will not risk. So, that might mean you speak up when you would normally be silent. If your voice shakes, don’t stop, because in that moment you’re breaking the fear of self rejection. Share your true feelings when you’d rather hide. Be brave in who you are. Don’t let worry, insecurity and self doubt cut you off from who you really are because you were put on earth on purpose for a purpose. 3. Third, be intentional about the way you hold yourself. When you collapse your body language and close in on yourself, you become more passive and less confident. When the fear of rejection presents, remember God’s promise, “I’ll be with you.” He will not leave you. He is with you always. So, live in the freedom of knowing that the God of the universe created you and has got you. Stop robbing the world of your voice. Don’t take away your gift. Quit holding back the love you have to give. You can conquer the biggest fear of rejection by allowing faith to drive your future. You can find contentment no matter what circumstance you find yourself.