Trauma - Pt 4

My companion stretched out his hand against his friends; he violated his covenant. His speech was smooth as butter, yet war was in his heart; his words were softer than oil, yet they were drawn swords. Cast your burden on the Lord, and he will sustain you; he will never permit the righteous to be moved. (Psalm 55:20-22 ESV).

There are those times when I am chided for using the promise of good (cf. Romans 8:28) so often. I know it does not bring immediate relief from the pain and struggle in the face of trauma; however, it does not ring false either. It is not merely a general promise that sometime, somehow God will do something good to balance the bad. The truth is that God knows specifically the pain of trauma and from that position speaks specifically to the depths of it. God does not leave us alone in our suffering either. God gives us words for the pain and trauma. Massive portions of the Bible were written in poetry, because mere prose cannot communicate the pain and struggle and emotion that poetry can. Not every prayer must end with the glorious shout of victory, despite what many simplistic blogs and books and sermons may suggest. The book of Lamentations (Book of Sorrows) ends in a whimper, in God’s arms, yet still fragile and vulnerable, still anxiously awaiting the victory. After trust seems to have been betrayed, whether it was trust in a God who could have prevented the pain, trust in a friend who was supposed to protect, trust in a system that was supposed to defend us the pain and trauma run much deeper. This is what David is saying in our reading today. We should look to words like these. They are more accurate, honest words. Truth can feel like a heavy burden for the hurting, but it is ultimately the only relief for the oppressed. Truthful and beautiful words cut through deceitful uses of Scripture and their accompanying half-truths. If trauma has brought you to a feeling of isolation, recognize God beside you in the midst of the assault on your worth and value. The Scripture is full of the words “meant for the foxhole.” They are words we never could have fully understood anywhere else. Let me direct you to one such passage written by the Apostle Paul: So we do not lose heart. Though our outer self is wasting away, our inner self is being renewed day by day. For this light momentary affliction is preparing for us an eternal weight of glory beyond all comparison, as we look not to the things that are seen but to the things that are unseen. For the things that are seen are transient, but the things that are unseen are eternal. (2 Corinthians 4:16-18 ESV).

Trauma - Pt 3

Out of my distress I called on the Lord; the Lord answered me and set me free. The Lord is on my side; I will not fear. What can man do to me? The Lord is on my side as my helper; I shall look in triumph on those who hate me. (Psalm 118:5-7 ESV).

The Scripture offers ample proof that God does not simply forget those things that are easier to do so. He tells stories of trauma that would have been much easier to ignore and forget. Glossing over the darkness for the sake of a redemptive story only perpetuates trauma. Calling the smallest signs of functionality “healing” and “progress” can actually undercut real healing and progress by minimizing pain and loss. The process of recovery is not typically immediate. Accurate self-assessment and self-honesty, as much as it is possible, is what places us within God’s true story about us, not trying to contrive redemptive emotions and improvement before they truly come. God speaks about our trauma with precision. No ambiguous talk of “darkness,” “shame,” or “chains” will accurately describe the transgression of abuse, or the self-harming cycles into which it throws its victims. Not crassness. Not oversharing. Not shouting it from the rooftops or bulldozing every conversation with its weight. But God does encourage and embrace truth in grace. The narratives in the Old Testament are awkwardly full of details. Like peering at surveillance footage, God inspired the authors to exposit the events with brutal accuracy. We see them in Judah and Tamar (Genesis 38); a Levite and his concubine (Judges 19); and, Amnon and Tamar (2 Samuel 13) to name a few. These are ugly, awful stories about traumatic experiences among God’s faithful ones. God didn’t intervene to prevent the abuse. God didn’t micromanage the suffering, or give the victims a clean and quick “recovery story.” And yet he still put them on stage in his redemptive story. Judah and Tamar interrupt the Joseph narrative. The Levite and his concubine interrupt the final cycle of Judges. Judah and Tamar interrupt David’s saga with Bathsheba and Absalom. God interrupts the stories of redemption with short stories of lives interrupted by trauma, some that are never resolved this side of heaven. What we can know with certainty is that they each are worked for our individual good. That is an absolute promise of God (cf. Romans 8:28).Therefore we can find comfort and healing in our story. There is glory awaiting!

Trauma - Pt 2

The Lord is merciful and gracious, slow to anger and abounding in steadfast love. He will not always chide, nor will he keep his anger forever. (Psalm 103:8-9 ESV).

Yesterday I wrote that we would look at five specific principles that describe the gifts God gives to the traumatized. We must be honest about the evil that exists in our world. Then we can be honest with how we can speak of Christ without overpromising with well-wishes that may not come true in this life. Then we are able to understand trauma without excusing someone entirely for awful patterns of sinful and destructive behavior. It is only then that we can faithfully and lovingly speak theological truth about trauma. So, the first of these gifts is that God remembers evil. God remembers the evil that caused our traumas. He will not forget the life of our lost loved one, the transgression of our abuser, the brutal pain of violence, the shock and awe of loss, the aching regret over wounds for which we’re responsible. One day, he will bring all of it into the light with crystal clarity and perfect justice. Genuine trauma is done a disservice when the wound is hidden. Satan wants you to hide and deceive. God wants you to come to him with every honest, painful detail. Trauma is mitigated first of all by calling that which is evil “evil,” and that which is devastating “trauma.” Its effects are only able to be survived and minimized when the whole tragedy has first come into view. The past will not be whitewashed for the sake of protecting the privileged. The men or women, the kings, the powerful, the institutional leaders, all those who abused power for their own personal gain, all evil acts will be properly labeled as evil, and remembered as the perpetuation of trauma. In being honest about our pain we are able to draw from the strength and purpose of God. While it often appears that God has merely wound this world and all the people in it allowing them to wander through life with all of its pain and trauma, this is simply not true, God has been very intentional in the ordination of our individual journey. Every pleasure, every painful experience, all of those things that a simply “in-between” have been designed to produce good (cf. Romans 8:28). He does not forget about the evil done to us nor experienced by us. He uses all of it for our good. And, further, if action is necessary to exact justice on our behalf that too will be done. Read the end of the book. We know how this story ends! God has not forgotten one tear!

Trauma - Pt 1

Be gracious to me, O God, for man tramples on me; all day long an attacker oppresses me; my enemies trample on me all day long, for many attack me proudly. When I am afraid, I put my trust in you. In God, whose word I praise, in God I trust; I shall not be afraid. (Psalm 56:1-4 ESV).

I am often asked how to deal with the trauma in someone’s past. Today I want to begin a short series that I hope will help us understand and cope with the suffering of life. Trauma is a certain kind of suffering, the kind that overwhelms one’s ability to cope. It describes a whole class of wounds that cripple. These are those wounds that bury themselves deep in our consciousness; they become tragedies that are simply too heavy for us. It happens in the past, but asserts itself over and over in the present. It may have been sex, too early; death, sudden and unwelcome; repetitive and familiar violence; prolonged neglect; excused abuse; or pervasive pain. It is not the same as the trauma of combat though they have similarities. I want us to focus on the trauma that is so often close to home. These experiences may be long removed from our present lives, yet they continue to affect us terribly. We must understand how we may faithfully navigate the overwhelming wounds and unpredictable triggers returning us to the pain in a wash of memories and wounds. Some Christians have been trained to think that faithful believers will not continue to experience traumatic symptoms for the rest of their lives because of Christ’s liberating work. On the other hand, hope and freedom are withheld by other well-meaning Christian counselors who insist on our “need to process,” the need to focus exclusively on our trauma, the need to speak at length about the pain, the need to obsess over it, the need to become preoccupied with our wounds. It is a false notion that only in giving ourselves over to our trauma can we be free from it. The first of these means of healing is no more than cruel optimism; the other is an incurable diagnosis. The church seems to walk precariously in these situations between these two serious errors. There are countless stories of churches blanching traumatic experiences and ongoing distress with reductionistic redemptive strategies, undercutting and offending the legitimacy and necessity of true lament. There are countless other stories of parents’ relationships with their children utterly destroyed, not to mention seeming relationships with God, because a counselor was overly fixated on the trauma. For these reasons, the term trauma is heard both too little and too often in our day, too little in addressing the profound wreckage of abuse, and too often as the controlling, decisive narrative in our story. This is where we begin. Trauma is real. God cares enormously. There are five specific things the Bible has to say to those who are hurting. We’ll look at each in the coming days. Today, put your trust in Him (v. 3-4).

Dirt Roads

But we urge you, brothers, to do this more and more, and to aspire to live quietly, and to mind your own affairs, and to work with your hands, as we instructed you, so that you may walk properly before outsiders and be dependent on no one. (1 Thessalonians 4:10-12 ESV).

The Christian life is not complicated. But when we allow fearful thoughts to invade our lives, we suddenly find that they have turned into struggles. God’s wisdom is sure, uncomplicated, and unwavering. He never meant for the Thessalonians to be captured by doubt or the frantic pace of their society. Instead, the Lord wanted them to learn to live simply; He wanted them to be content. So the apostle writes to the Thessalonians to “make it their ambition to lead a quiet life” (v. 11). The picture of the dirt road through the farmland I’ve chosen today reminds me of that need of a simpler life. Living with godly simplicity does not equal inactivity. It is not an encouragement for mental or physical laziness. Simplicity, when it is handled properly, removes the noise and clutter that threaten to steal our sense of peace and intimacy with Christ. Here’s what Tozer writes: “Every age has its own characteristics. Right now we are in an age of religious complexity. The simplicity, which is in Christ, is rarely found among us. In its stead are programs, methods, organizations, and a world of nervous activities, which occupy time and attention but can never satisfy the longing of the heart. The shallowness of our inner experience, the hollowness of our worship, and that servile imitation of the world which marks our promotional methods all testify that we, in this day, know God only imperfectly, and the peace of God scarcely at all.” The apostle tells them to remember what he taught them. I wish we had a manuscript of that lesson! In the absence of that, here are two principles that I have found both Scriptural and practical: First, be clear about the fact that our lives are more complex than they need to be. I am not advocating a monastic life; however, I’m sure with some intentional reevaluation we all could find some things that we could eliminate from our schedules. Be intentional about both your time and resources. Second, make decisions based on the context of genuine need. Sometimes that is more difficult than it might appear. I’ve found it easier when I put everything in the context of “need.” The next time you go to buy a second of anything, be serious and ask yourself, “Do I really need another one like the one I have?” This is the heart of real simplicity, which will lead you to contentment. This is the stroll down the dirt road, instead of speeding down the interstate. Give it a try!

Confessions of an Overachiever

But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me. For the sake of Christ, then, I am content with weaknesses, insults, hardships, persecutions, and calamities. For when I am weak, then I am strong. (2 Corinthians 12:9-10 ESV).

I’m actually writing this devotional about a week before it is posted on any of the sites typically used. We are in the midst of one of those North Texas winter storms. Now, this is not to say that it is anything as bad as it is in other parts of the country; however, it is cold, windy, and rainy. These are those days that keep me indoors instead of in the shop. And, that causes me to feel like I’m “wasting” time; or as I often like to say: I’m burning daylight. That is rooted in my being an “overachiever.” That doesn’t mean that I have “achieved” anything; it means I’m not content with inactivity. Some might even say this is an indicator that I could be classified as a “workaholic”. You may have this same bent. Perhaps this is ingrained in our genetics, perhaps it’s a combination of drive and ability. Maybe we’re just wired to be “highly alert”, or perhaps it’s just that we’ve been socialized to believe that we were born to continually strive for “more” in life. I suspect, like so many things, it’s a combination of several of these things. Those of us like this are unlikely to take comfort in the concept of rest or, worse yet, weakness. It’s not surprising then, that my idea of belonging to God, of being beloved, did not begin well. With my religious background and my personality it was easy to believe my only real hope would be found in some kind of excellence on my part. In many of our lives we’ve come to a place, either by choice or mere circumstance, that we were brought desperately low. The place I’m referring to is one where a person feels as though they cannot possibly deserve redemption. I’m confident I’ve personally visited this place more than a few times. My answer now, is that acceptance of the truth that I don’t deserve redemption. I am a sinner in need of the grace of God. And, thanks be to our God who provided the One is was deserving on my behalf! This brings us to the incredible concept of contentment. I am nothing except weak. And, that weakness is an open door to allow His unending grace, power and provision to enter my life (vv. 9-10). Further still, He taught me that the answer to connection with Him was the opposite of what I had learned; God was not waiting for my exceptional achievement, He was waiting for humility to open the door to my heart. Please know that God loves you and is ready to meet you where you are. God is not waiting for you to do anything. He has come to meet you with open arms. You cannot perfect your efforts in the eyes of the Lord; and He doesn’t want or expect that from you!

Contentment - Pt 2

I rejoiced in the Lord greatly that now at length you have revived your concern for me. You were indeed concerned for me, but you had no opportunity. Not that I am speaking of being in need, for I have learned in whatever situation I am to be content. I know how to be brought low, and I know how to abound. In any and every circumstance, I have learned the secret of facing plenty and hunger, abundance and need. I can do all things through him who strengthens me. (Philippians 4:10-13 ESV).

If you’ve known Mary and I for anytime at all, you also know our place of serenity is found in the Smoky Mountains. There are lots of reasons for that. The natural beauty and simple quiet of the mountains is a big part of that. We try to get back there at least once a year now that we live in Texas and the distance is a bit further than our years in Middle Tennessee. It’s something of a mystery to me how the tradition began. However, I do know the results. We can listen better there than any other place we’ve been. We’re planning a trip soon! The problem with this strategy in overcoming anxiety and self-doubt is how difficult it is to take it with you into daily life. The real strength comes from the Holy Spirit who is within us most powerfully. Geography and circumstance can make tapping into that strength easier; however, these outward circumstances are poor motivators by themselves compared to the power of God within us. The key is in learning to hear the voice of God telling us His truth. So, when fear starts to whisper lies, here are three simple strategies to tune out the doubts and give a voice to the real you: 1. First, pay attention to your words and the way that you talk about yourself. Phrases like, “I could never,” “I’ll probably mess it up,” or the ever present “I’m sorry,” need to be erased from the autoplay list in our mind. Adopt a different strategy: If you wouldn’t say it to someone you love, don’t say it to yourself. 2. Second, find a small way to break a habit of safety. You cannot grow what you will not risk. So, that might mean you speak up when you would normally be silent. If your voice shakes, don’t stop, because in that moment you’re breaking the fear of self rejection. Share your true feelings when you’d rather hide. Be brave in who you are. Don’t let worry, insecurity and self doubt cut you off from who you really are because you were put on earth on purpose for a purpose. 3. Third, be intentional about the way you hold yourself. When you collapse your body language and close in on yourself, you become more passive and less confident. When the fear of rejection presents, remember God’s promise, “I’ll be with you.” He will not leave you. He is with you always. So, live in the freedom of knowing that the God of the universe created you and has got you. Stop robbing the world of your voice. Don’t take away your gift. Quit holding back the love you have to give. You can conquer the biggest fear of rejection by allowing faith to drive your future. You can find contentment no matter what circumstance you find yourself.

Contentment - Pt 1

I rejoiced in the Lord greatly that now at length you have revived your concern for me. You were indeed concerned for me, but you had no opportunity. Not that I am speaking of being in need, for I have learned in whatever situation I am to be content. I know how to be brought low, and I know how to abound. In any and every circumstance, I have learned the secret of facing plenty and hunger, abundance and need. I can do all things through him who strengthens me. (Philippians 4:10-13 ESV).

Yesterday I wrote a bit about the craftsmanship of God in his design and creation, especially as it relates specifically to us as individuals. As I let that thought meander a bit more in my mind I came to the conclusion that perhaps a few short follow-up devotionals concerning what that means practically might be helpful. Our reading is taken from the Apostle Paul as he writes a gracious letter expressing his love and gratitude for the Philippian Church as they had done so much to validate his ministry and support him in his last imprisonment. In these last few verses he shares an incredible principle dealing with what is so often missing in our lives: Contentment. If we are insightful and honest with ourselves we all wrestle with a very specific and debilitating fear. It’s not an externally prompted fear like being afraid of spiders, snakes, or heights. It’s not a wearisome fear like worry that erodes our spirit from uncontrollable circumstances. The fear I see is a fear that flows out from our inner thoughts and beliefs. It slowly rises over our core identity drowning it in a feeling of dread and anxiety. This fear can be so terrifying to us that we often bury it deeply within our psyche. It is the fear of rejection. It will destroy your contentment. This kind of fear whispers to us that we somehow won’t be enough. It’s the sinking feeling that we are an imposter and we don’t belong. It’s the mind numbing worry that if people really knew what you think or how you are, you would be rejected by them. This fear keeps us from living life to the fullest because we’re afraid to truly live at all. We shrink back and hold back instead of growing and letting go. We believe that the gifts we have, our dreams and strengths, are not important and not valuable. We are constantly making the exhausting choice to be a false impression in order to be accepted by others rather than becoming our authentic selves, who God created us to be. When we struggle with self-doubt and let insecurity determine our actions and beliefs, we’re stealing away who God created us to be. We’re holding back the real person the world needs us to be. Tomorrow, I’ll have a few very practical things we can do to overturn the convincing arguments of the whispers in our mind. Today, be intention about this declaration: I can do all things through him (v. 13).

Craftsmanship

For you formed my inward parts; you knitted me together in my mother's womb. I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Wonderful are your works; my soul knows it very well. My frame was not hidden from you, when I was being made in secret, intricately woven in the depths of the earth. Your eyes saw my unformed substance; in your book were written, every one of them, the days that were formed for me, when as yet there was none of them. (Psalm 139:13-16 ESV).

Henry Steinway built his first piano in 1836 in the kitchen of his home in Germany. Our photo today is that same piano now displayed at the Metropolitan Museum of Art in New York City. He was born in 1797, he would build 482 pianos over the next decade. Eventually, he and his family emigrated to the United States, establishing Steinway & Sons with the goal of manufacturing pianos. It must have sounded like an unlikely business, but within three years, they were manufacturing more than 200 pianos a year. Because of the quality of their craftsmanship, Steinway developed a reputation for excellence. As a result, their pianos were sold the world over. Today, the company so dominates the piano business that an estimated 97% of concert soloists choose to play on a Steinway. All other brands combined account for the other 3%. Some of their pianos sell in the tens of thousands of dollars, with the most expensive being $1.2 million! The Bible reminds us that God is also concerned with craftsmanship. He is concerned with every work being excellent. We see it in the creation. With every day and the work of his purpose the pronouncement is that it was “very good.” When he finishes creation with the capstone of man, God says it was “very, very good.” We also see this concern in the building of the tabernacle. God appointed Bezalel to supervise the design and construction, perfectly preparing and equipping him for this important assignment. Later, God applied the same principles to the building of Solomon’s temple, a magnificent structure built to honor God. Throughout the Scripture we are told how much excellence in his creative activity has shown itself. Because of this truth we can see that God calls each of us to be good stewards of the resources he has given us. He desires us to do work of excellence. He desires us to develop our abilities in everything we attempt. We should be a testimony to the greatness of God in our homes and families, in our careers, and even in our recreation. The reason for this is in the truth of who we are intrinsically. We are the product of his perfect workmanship; and, as such, we ought to reflect that in all we do. My dad taught me that “if it is worth doing, it is worth doing right.” For me that is merely an acknowledgement of the need for “craftsmanship” in whatever I put my hands to do.

Well, Bless Your Heart!

The one who states his case first seems right, until the other comes and examines him. The lot puts an end to quarrels and decides between powerful contenders. A brother offended is more unyielding than a strong city, and quarreling is like the bars of a castle. From the fruit of a man's mouth his stomach is satisfied; he is satisfied by the yield of his lips. Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruits. (Proverbs 18:17-21 ESV).

A warning… today might be seen as a rant. I hope not; but, if you see it that way, perhaps you can be encouraged to spend a moment and reflect on how you use your conversations to really bless others just a bit more. The title today is “Well, bless your heart.” In the South this saying, or one of its many variations depending on gender or number of people addressed, only follows a completely awful comment that a stereotypically southern native just made. When we criticize someone and follow it up with “bless their heart,” we aren’t really asking God to bless their heart. We’re just trying to not seem like a jerk while we gossip. I went to a local “barbershop” last week. It was one of those many chains that have become the norm today. You walk in and everyone turns from their client to greet you with a “welcome to…” I always wonder if they’re really glad to see me, or if they simply think “Oh no, not another one.” At any rate, having signed in online, which seems to be the only way you can actually get in line with any reasonable expectation of a haircut, I walked in and saw that an older man was there again. He had cut my hair once before and it was not just a good haircut, it was pleasant in a very nostalgic way. He doesn’t move as fast as the other “stylists.” However, he is perfect for me. I guess I looked like I was in a hurry because a young lady came to the check-in counter to log me in and take me back to her chair before he could get there. He was piddling a little, but that didn’t bother me. I told the young lady that I’d just as soon wait on him and she said, “Oh, bless his heart, he’s not as quick as he used to be. I’ll be happy to help you.” My response was probably a bit sarcastic. I simply said, “That’s OK. I really prefer a real barber.” With a bit of a huff she went back to her station and the “old guy” took me back for a haircut. We chatted a bit about things that were really of no consequence and some that were. I’m sure everyone heard our conversation as both of us couldn’t hear thunder anymore. But I got a great haircut and a bit more. I got his name and his schedule so that I can request him from now on. I felt good. I hope he did as well. The reading today says, “…death and life are in the power of the tongue” (v. 21). I know I can be more intentional about my words. Perhaps you can too. Let’s use them for life!

A Hallmark Movie Ending

And I heard a loud voice from the throne saying, “Behold, the dwelling place of God is with man. He will dwell with them, and they will be his people, and God himself will be with them as their God. He will wipe away every tear from their eyes, and death shall be no more, neither shall there be mourning, nor crying, nor pain anymore, for the former things have passed away.” (Revelation 21:3-4 ESV).

Recently a client sat across the table from me and asked, “Is it wrong for me to want a Hallmark movie ending?” I knew immediately what she was really asking. She longed for a “happily ever after” ending in her life. I absolutely recognize, as with her and many others, life can become overwhelming. It can seem as if the pain will never end and we are destined to suffer forever. Like Hallmark Movies, that’s simply not true. Maybe that’s why I’m such a fan of these sappy, feel-good movies. They are predictably poignant but proudly and admittedly always going to bring a happy ending to the story line. Perhaps that’s why the Hallmark Hall of Fame franchise, which dates back to 1951, is the longest running prime time series in television history. “Good taste is good business,” J.C. Hall is the founder of the Hallmark company. Concerning the beginning, he has said, “All I was trying to do was make a living.” He was the son of a bi-vocational preacher, a strong Christian who believed work was an extension of his worship, always stressing excellence in everything he did. It’s no wonder he personally chose the famous company slogan: “When you care enough to send the very best.” J.C. Hall, who passed away at the age of 91, has been gone for 36 years, but fans still eagerly tune in to his movies. Cutting right to the chase, I think it’s because we like happy endings. The predictability of the Hallmark movie script has been ridiculed by many in culturally elite circles. However, When the lights come up at the end of a movie with a happy ending, how can you not help but be encouraged and maybe even see life as it will someday be, when sin and sorrow are gone forever? After all, the real Christmas story is the ultimate feel-good event that puts even the most highly rated Hallmark movie to shame. It’s the greatest story ever told about the greatest man who ever-lived. Let the elites of the world mock those of us who are drawn to good news and happy endings. Someday, perhaps very soon, this world will pass away and with it all the sin and sorrow that wear us down. For now, look up and keep moving. Don’t be afraid to be different. After all, it was the apostle Paul who urged early believers in Rome to “not conform to the pattern of this world but be transformed by the renewing of your mind” (cf. Romans 12:2).

18-Wheelers and Texas Sun

I lift up my eyes to the hills. From where does my help come? My help comes from the Lord, who made heaven and earth. He will not let your foot be moved; he who keeps you will not slumber. Behold, he who keeps Israel will neither slumber nor sleep. The Lord is your keeper; the Lord is your shade on your right hand. The sun shall not strike you by day, nor the moon by night. The Lord will keep you from all evil; he will keep your life. (Psalm 121:1-7 ESV).

We’ve had a few days of bright cloudless skies recently in North Texas. The great thing about that for me was the drive to work on both days were pleasant and warm. I have a forty-five minute drive to my office in Arlington, and, while the heater works great in my truck, I always enjoy the warmth of the sun more. The temperature can be as much as ten degrees warmer with the sun shining than not. That’s great in the cool winter, however in the dead heat of summer, it can be more than the cooling system can deal with very quickly. I was taken back to an experience I have had many times on the interstate when driving beside an 18-wheeler. They can cast a big shadow. In the heat it can mean an immediate drop in temperature in my vehicle. And that took me to our reading today. The refreshing and restorative power of shade isn’t new. David writes about it there. He knew what it was like to sit for hours in the Judean sun watching his sheep graze. He also knew the value of a well-placed shade tree or drifting cloud. Perhaps this is why he described God as “the shade at your right hand.” What a beautiful picture of God. When the glare of our circumstances distorts our perspective, the shade of his presence enables us to see with clarity. When the heat of trials threatens to incinerate us, God’s presence cools the flames. When the blazing rays of difficulty beat down upon our heads, God positions himself between us, refusing to let them consume us. If you’re feeling the heat of a difficult circumstance now, pull on up next to God’s shade. Ride a while with him as you shade. Allow him to refresh you by spending time in his Word; and, rest under the protective covering of prayer. Take refuge in the shadow of his presence, knowing that he watches over you. Here’s another bit of Scripture to encourage you: For you have been a stronghold to the poor, a stronghold to the needy in his distress, a shelter from the storm and a shade from the heat; for the breath of the ruthless is like a storm against a wall, like heat in a dry place. You subdue the noise of the foreigners; as heat by the shade of a cloud, so the song of the ruthless is put down. (Isaiah 24:4-5 ESV).

Along the Trails of East Texas

Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends. (John 15:13 ESV).

Approaching Spring I am reminded of the Texas State Train Depot in Rusk, Texas. You can board one of the refurbished train cars and feel like you’ve been transported to a simpler, more leisurely time where the distractions of crazy culture suddenly disappear. You can breathe deeply in the clean fresh air of a round-trip, four-hour, 25-mile rail journey through the Piney Woods of East Texas where history is just part of the journey. In the Spring, you’ll see redbuds, wildflowers, and dogwoods. The dogwood tree is a common in East Texas. It is prized for its delicate flowers and scent. Surprisingly it is native to the Middle East. Many legends in Christianity include the dogwood. In fact, the tree has taken on symbolic meaning for many cultures. The legend surrounding the symbolic meaning of a dogwood tree is intrinsically linked to Christianity. It is said that the wood of the dogwood tree is the hardest and that it was chosen to be used in the cross on which Jesus Christ was crucified. Although there are no direct accounts that this is so, it is known that dogwood grew in the areas surrounding Jerusalem during this time period, and it is entirely likely that this wood was used. The legend of the tree continues that because it was used as part of the cross, that God cursed the dogwood forever after. Due to this supposed curse, the growth pattern of the dogwood tree is said to be stunted and twisted. Once again, there is no real historic fact to back this up, and there are no notes that show whether or not that the dogwood tree used to grow taller before the crucifixion. However, the tree does now have a growth pattern that is very twisted and short. The legend of the dogwood tree also extends to its flowers. Typically, the blossoms are four petaled with two long petals and two short petals, forming the shape of the sign of the cross. The flowers are typically white or pink with dark edging at the tips meant to signify the nails of the cross. The center of the blossom can be described as a crown of thorns and is also typically of a darker color than the rest of the blossom. Naturally I am turned toward thoughts of Easter as a result of these beautiful blossoms. This year Lent begins on March 6th and ends with Easter Sunday on April 21st. As I wrote yesterday, the whole of creation reveals the character and nature of God. With or without the legend, we can be sure of God’s love toward us in the beauty surrounding us. When Jesus talked about “greater love” in our reading today, there were no qualifiers. He has shown us a greater love than anything or anyone. Let’s celebrate that love toady!

Warmer Days of Spring

For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men, who by their unrighteousness suppress the truth. For what can be known about God is plain to them, because God has shown it to them. For his invisible attributes, namely, his eternal power and divine nature, have been clearly perceived, ever since the creation of the world, in the things that have been made. So they are without excuse. For although they knew God, they did not honor him as God or give thanks to him, but they became futile in their thinking, and their foolish hearts were darkened. (Romans 1:18-21 ESV).

If you take a bit of a drive to the Hill Country of Texas, you would see the first signs that Spring is near. Bluebonnets are beginning to rise out of the ground in preparation to give the landscape an incredible vista. However, we are just now creeping into those days in North Central Texas when the weather is no more than very unpredictable. It may be freezing with sleet or snow, or it could be warm and sunny with temperatures in the seventies. It’s the latter of those that make me long for Spring. Perhaps you’re a bit like me and wonder if Spring is ever going to really arrive and stay. I know we’re a bit unusual since most of America lives in the reality of four seasons; and, come to expect their weather to naturally cycle from winter to spring to summer to fall. We expect trees to unfurl new leaves and temperatures to rise in the Spring because they're supposed to. That is a reasonable expectation; however, what if the wildflowers didn’t bloom and the trees didn’t leaf out in winter when their new leaves would freeze, or what if their flowers matured into hornets' nests instead of apples? What if they didn't bloom at all? In his autobiographical work, Orthodoxy, G. K. Chesterton remembers his journey from agnosticism to faith including such nonsensical questions. Before he became one of the the great 20th century apologists, he was a man confined to the world of determinism, where the natural world was governed by impersonal laws or nothing. But observing spring outside his window, he was struck by the wonderful fact that for some reason, trees do indeed bloom into fruit. This is what the apostle means when he writes to the Romans, For what can be known about God is plain to them, because God has shown it to them (v. 19). God has not hidden himself away from discovery. He has made his character and attributes plain in the world that he has created. The real problem is that often we simply don’t pay attention. As I look about my little world this time of the year, I am reminded to look more closely and see God in everything around me. That knowledge then ought to motivate me to worship and please Him. How about you?

A Dozen Red Roses - Pt 6

Then they lifted up their voices and wept again. And Orpah kissed her mother-in-law, but Ruth clung to her. And she said, “See, your sister-in-law has gone back to her people and to her gods; return after your sister-in-law.” But Ruth said, “Do not urge me to leave you or to return from following you. For where you go I will go, and where you lodge I will lodge. Your people shall be my people, and your God my God. Where you die I will die, and there will I be buried. May the Lord do so to me and more also if anything but death parts me from you.” And when Naomi saw that she was determined to go with her, she said no more. (Ruth 1:14-18 ESV).

Love is not a feeling, it is a choice. I’m not sure we often view love this way. We are raised with a fanciful imagination sweeping us off to places where we will fall helplessly in love with someone else. However, if you want to find the “happily ever after” in your life, it will be found in your choice to love. This is the story of Ruth. Clearly, love has seized her and she is powerless in its grip. When we look at the first chapter of Ruth, we see that Ruth chose to love Naomi, even when the consequences looked bleak. If Ruth turned back and left Naomi, she would have had an easier time remarrying, which was crucial to a woman’s worth in those times. She was still young. She could have really done something with her life if she had just stayed with her own people … and that is what Naomi urges her to do. But Ruth responded with the clear commitment of “wherever you go” (v. 18). Ruth was “determined”. Any lesser love would not have been enough. It took a deliberate, almost stubborn love to prove to Naomi that Ruth was serious about her commitment. Naomi was almost all the family that Ruth had left. Maybe she was not the family member that Ruth would have chosen to love, but Ruth chose to love her anyway. We have all been put on earth together for a reason, and the difficulty of love is exactly what enables it to be so powerful. When we have no choice about who to love, love becomes harder. Perhaps we need to stop waiting for a feeling of love. The fact is, when we can’t choose the people we love, we choose to love the people we have, and that is a far richer experience. And in doing so, we reflect the love of God, who chose to love us before any of us loved Him. The Apostle Peter says, “… love one another deeply” (1 Peter 1:22). This kind of love is not a noun, not an adjective, it’s a verb. It’s a very deliberate action. That is the love of our Father and the love He calls us to have for one another. Make that your commitment as a part of your observance of this Day of Love.

A Dozen Red Roses - Pt 5

You are beautiful as Tirzah, my love, lovely as Jerusalem, awesome as an army with banners. Turn away your eyes from me, for they overwhelm me—Your hair is like a flock of goats leaping down the slopes of Gilead. Your teeth are like a flock of ewes that have come up from the washing; all of them bear twins; not one among them has lost its young. Your cheeks are like halves of a pomegranate behind your veil. (Song of Solomon 4:6-7 ESV).

Valentine’s Day is tomorrow. I hope you’ve already visited the card aisle and selected that perfect expression for your love. It’s strange to me we do so much on this one day and so little the rest of the year. Compliments should be the norm in a love relationship. Much of Song of Solomon could be words in an anniversary card or on a thousand sticky notes left for your love to find around the house on Valentine’s Day. The poetry in this song is as if the two of them are competing with one another with kind, loving, and even seductive words directed at the other. We all have different words that are meaningful and expressive for us. Solomon loved similes and metaphors. He was a master at weaving words together, and the reader clearly sees the passion and adoration taking place between he and his love. He also never compares their love to anything unbecoming. As I consider my marriage, I realize I don’t often have the words to express these powerful emotions, and I certainly didn’t know how to early in our courtship. Perhaps you struggle with this as well. We can learn from Solomon and use more positive comparisons in our love language to our spouse. Someone recently told me that they were having difficulty even finding something to compliment their husband about. I remembered a verse in Paul’s letter to the Philippians and told her to look for whatever was “true, noble, right, pure, lovely, and admirable” (cf. Philippians 4:8) in her husband and to praise him for those things. She made a concerted effort to do that and a few weeks later when she came back to see me, she said when her words towards her husband changed to praise, her marriage began to heal. My challenge for you is to be intentional in expressing grace, gratitude, and praise to your loved ones this week. Do it spontaneously and deliberately. Even if you don’t have a spouse, express these things to those you are close to. Even your children need these words of affirmation. There are plenty of others who would tear them down; build them up with your words and actions today.

A Dozen Red Roses - Pt 4

Set me as a seal upon your heart, as a seal upon your arm, for love is strong as death, jealousy is fierce as the grave. Its flashes are flashes of fire, the very flame of the Lord. Many waters cannot quench love, neither can floods drown it. If a man offered for love all the wealth of his house, he would be utterly despised. (Song of Solomon 8:6-7: ESV).

We can’t leave these last few verses without noticing the relentless nature of God’s love: Set me as a seal upon your heart, as a seal upon your arm, for love is strong as death, jealousy is fierce as the grave. Its flashes are flashes of fire, the very flame of the Lord. Many waters cannot quench love, neither can floods drown it. (v. 6). There are many worship songs that incorporate this concept. One of my favorites is by Cory Asbury. Take a moment and listen: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rQqBfaqK99Q. I like the way Jesus puts it to us: See that you do not despise one of these little ones. For I tell you that in heaven their angels always see the face of my Father who is in heaven. What do you think? If a man has a hundred sheep, and one of them has gone astray, does he not leave the ninety-nine on the mountains and go in search of the one that went astray? And if he finds it, truly, I say to you, he rejoices over it more than over the ninety-nine that never went astray. (Matthew 19:10-14 ESV). I’m not sure any of us can completely comprehend God’s love for us. Our limited experience of human love hinders us from understanding God’s unconditional love for us. However, God’s message is clear. Even when we turn our devotion or reject Him, his pursuit of us is relentless. This truth makes it nearly impossible to fathom that God could love us even after we have rejected, ignored, and disobeyed Him. Yet God’s love is completely different from ours. His love follows us to the depths of our sinfulness until He has reclaimed us. His love is undaunted when we run from Him, and He continues to pursue us. What incredible love He has demonstrated to us. This is the depth of love that Solomon describes as a model for us in our relationships. Love may have come easy when it was brand new. We ought to come to the belief that love is as much a choice as it is an emotion. Choice is an act of maturity when we put the relationship ahead of everything, including our children. It’s unfortunate, but time has a way of eating away at our priorities. “You’re the most important thing in my life” gives way to “my work… the family business…the children… my aging parents… even golf, football or drinking…” Marriages don’t work well when our partner plays second fiddle to anything – even the children. Perhaps Valentine’s Day is the perfect opportunity for you to renew your love for one another. Certainly it is a great time to renew your love for your Savior and God, Jesus.

A Dozen Red Roses - Pt 3

Set me as a seal upon your heart, as a seal upon your arm, for love is strong as death, jealousy is fierce as the grave. Its flashes are flashes of fire, the very flame of the Lord. Many waters cannot quench love, neither can floods drown it. If a man offered for love all the wealth of his house, he would be utterly despised. (Song of Solomon 8:6-7: ESV).

As Solomon comes to the end of this incredible song describing his deep relationship with his beloved, we see an important principle revealed concerning the commitment to longevity of marriage. Our reading begins with the declaration that “love is as strong as death” (v. 6). I’ve attached a picture from our wedding day, forty-nine years ago. You may notice a few things about it and have a question or two. I’ll try to briefly answer them for you. Yes, that is me in the coal black hair; I haven’t always been gray and old. Yes, Mary is wearing a very short dress; after all, that was the style in 1969 and she has the legs to looking stunning in any length dress, then or now. Yes, we are running to duck the throwing of real rice; they did that in those days and it wasn’t done gently. It is our “going away” picture. As we rushed to the car to drive to the first destination of our honeymoon, the car was thoroughly decorated with appropriate words and phrases for the occasion with cans tied to the back bumper. We were driving to San Antonio the first night and because of the late hour we wanted to scoot away quickly. Mary’s sister had other ideas as she and some others from the wedding party got in their car and blocked our “getaway” by driving very slowly in front of us for miles. It was all in good fun and wonderful to experience such a first day of marriage. There would be many more. I suppose our “honeymoon” lasted longer than many. That’s at the heart of the matter though. Solomon makes a reference to this idea that while the honeymoon phase will end, the joy and love in marriage doesn't have to. Most interpreters of the Scripture believe the whole book (or song) takes place between one and two years; thus, we can assume the marriage becomes challenging pretty quickly. But they don’t give up on their relationship, and after struggling through some challenges, they repair and restore their loving devotion to one another. This is a great example of the reality of marriage. The Hallmark Channel does a great job of showing a couple falling in love and making it to the altar, but they stop there. Perhaps because love gets tough after life begins. Marriage is a lifetime commitment and takes hard work, but the mature love shown at the end of Song of Solomon is a beautiful picture of the intimacy God desires couples to share. That’s the kind of love He has for us. It is the kind of love we must develop for one another if we are to have a long and satisfying relationship. Renew that commitment this Valentine’s Day!

A Dozen Red Roses - Pt 2

I am a rose of Sharon, a lily of the valleys. As a lily among brambles, so is my love among the young women. As an apple tree among the trees of the forest, so is my beloved among the young men. With great delight I sat in his shadow, and his fruit was sweet to my taste. He brought me to the banqueting house, and his banner over me was love. Sustain me with raisins; refresh me with apples, for I am sick with love. His left hand is under my head, and his right hand embraces me! (Song of Solomon 2:1-6 ESV).

The Texas Bluebonnet Trail last year was another one of our little adventures in seeing some of the wonder of the world God has created for us. We were fortunate to find someone to snap a photo of Mary and I together in the midst of acres of these wonderful wild flowers last year. It reminded me of the importance of one of the principles developed in our study of Song of Solomon in our approach to Valentines Day. Continued courtship is essential in a healthy marriage. Song of Solomon is a series of different sections which show the progression of the relationship between King Solomon and his beloved, and it starts with a courtship. This is a phase where one “puts their best foot forward.” Lovers’ words are sweet and full of compliments to one another. Clearly, the characters in Song of Solomon are deliriously happy over their mutual growing affection. They long for one another in an intimate way but demonstrate restraint as they grow together. Our culture seems to have lost the art of courtship. In fact, based on my experience with adolescents and teens today, we have failed miserably in teaching them this crucial principle. They jump into what they call “dating” before they even know one another and there doesn’t seem to be any courtship or “winning one over” anymore. There isn’t much evidence of those principles of chivalry, being coy, or simply waiting until they’ve put in their best efforts before even uttering the words “relationship”. Mary and I have been married for 49 years now. It has not always been easy or simple. In fact, it has often been challenging and complex. The one thing that seems to be a constant throughout the years is the necessity and benefit of continuing to court one another. Sometimes it a simple expression, and at other times it is elaborate. What I do know is that the example we have from the Lord is that of doing everything possible to begin and grow a relationship with His beloved, even to the extent of sacrificing his life. Perhaps our thoughts as we approach this Valentine’s Day ought to be centered in those things. Flowers and chocolates are fine, but they alone will not build a lasting, loving relationship. They will not bring us “great delight” (v. 3). Think on that today and determine to have that kind of commitment

A Dozen Red Roses - Pt 1

I am a rose of Sharon, a lily of the valleys. As a lily among brambles, so is my love among the young women. As an apple tree among the trees of the forest, so is my beloved among the young men. With great delight I sat in his shadow, and his fruit was sweet to my taste. He brought me to the banqueting house, and his banner over me was love. Sustain me with raisins; refresh me with apples, for I am sick with love. His left hand is under my head, and his right hand embraces me! (Song of Solomon 2:1-6 ESV).

With just five days left until Valentine’s Day, I thought I’d turn our attention to one of the greatest books of poetry in the Old Testament. So many biblical scholars disagree on its interpretation it should not be a surprise that many find Song of Solomon confusing. In fact, it is a book rarely used as a foundational text in preaching. Some say it’s a drama or musical, and maintain that there are two or three main characters. It’s often called Song of Songs, and even the Canticle of Canticles. Most agree it that shows a beautiful picture of God’s design for love and the marriage relationship. Others say the book is an allegory of God and His relationship with the church. Still others claim that theory is nonsense. My opinion is a summation of all of these things, with one great exception. I know it is just as inspired of the Holy Spirit as any other; and, I am convinced that it has a very specific message to all of us in our contemporary culture. So, I am using this book in the next few days to focus on the example of God’s love for us and how that ought to affect our relationships with our family. The first verse of our reading today declares the identity of this character: I am a rose of Sharon, a lily of the valleys (v. 1). Spurgeon writes of this declaration: It is our Lord who speaks: "I am the rose of Sharon." How is it that he utters his own commendation, for it is an old and true adage, that "self praise is no recommendation"? None but vain creatures ever praise themselves, and yet Jesus often praises himself, he says, "I am the good Shepherd;" "I am the Bread of Life;" "I am meek and lowly of heart," and in manifold speeches he is frequently declaring his own excellencies, yet Jesus is not vain. Indeed! It is not vanity at all! The Holy Spirit merely expresses the coming Messiah in this book in a way that is most meaningful to describe the great love God will show us in the coming of Jesus. My work necessarily gives me a skewed demographic. Most of the folks I see are in crisis within their family. It may be a conflict between spouses, parents and their children, or extended family. I am still amazed at how little we understand of the commitment necessary to truly love one another. My desire is to give all of us reason to pause and reexamine our love for each other in our families this Valentine’s Day and every day following. Stat the process today by thinking on the love of God toward you expressed so vividly in Jesus.

The Love Bug

Jesus said, “Little children, yet a little while I am with you. You will seek me, and just as I said to the Jews, so now I also say to you, ‘Where I am going you cannot come.’ A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.” (John 13:33-35 ESV).

We are creeping closer and closer to Valentine’s Day. The title for today’s devotional is somewhat misleading. At first you may think of the movie starring “Herbie.” After all, he is the real “love bug,” right? Well, the truth is there is an insect commonly known as a love bug. It is the Plecia Nearctica. The picture today is of two of those little pesky critters. If you’ve driven through anywhere in the South in early spring or summer you have met him head-on. They congregate in clouds over the highway only to be smashed against your windshield, often nearly obscuring your view of the road. Even though I have done the research and understand why they hang out over the roadways, I’m still not altogether sure why God made them like that. I read the article and could not really figure out the purpose. Maybe it has nothing to do with the environment and the cycle of nature while having everything to do with growing my patience. “Purpose” implies design. They were designed to do something. Here is what I got from the University of Florida, from Thomas Fasulo, an extension entomologist with UF’s Institute of Food and Agricultural Sciences. Lovebugs help the environment when they are in their immature stage, Fasulo said. When grass is cut and the excess falls to the ground, it creates a covering known as thatch, where immature lovebugs live and eat. Through this process they redistribute essential nutrients back into the ground that are beneficial to plants and the environment. Another interesting tidbit from Fasulo: “As for lovebugs looking strange when flying together attached, they are actually mating. During the mating process, the male lovebug attaches to the female lovebug and only disengages during the daytime while resting on vegetation, never during flight or at night. Successful mating takes as much as 12 hours, and the female lovebug dies within 86 hours of laying eggs.” Like all things created by God, they were created and designed to fulfill a purpose. And, that brings me to our reading today. It’s easy to “love” your friends and family. However, Jesus is enjoining us to love all men. That’s a lot harder and much more difficult. His purpose for that command is that all people might know we are his disciples. That’s his purpose. Everything God wills and does has purpose. I wonder, who are the hard folks you need to show your love to? Who needs to see this part of your discipleship?

A Blessing

The Lord spoke to Moses, saying, “Speak to Aaron and his sons, saying, Thus you shall bless the people of Israel: you shall say to them, ‘The Lord bless you and keep you; the Lord make his face to shine upon you and be gracious to you; the Lord lift up his countenance upon you and give you peace.’ So shall they put my name upon the people of Israel, and I will bless them.” (Numbers 6:22-27 ESV).

Our reading today is taken from the Old Testament when Moses was giving some last instructions as the people readied themselves for entrance into the Promised Land. Moses tells Aaron at the command of God to bless the people with a very specific pronouncement: “The Lord bless you and keep you; the Lord make his face to shine upon you and be gracious to you; the Lord lift up his countenance upon you and give you peace” (vv. 24-25). I have recited this prayerful blessing over many people in numerous contexts. One of the churches I pastored became the setting for me to use this blessing at each morning service as I walked down the aisle to the main doors dismissing the service. I often use it as the last prayer and blessing in wedding ceremonies. It has been a powerful promise of God in my life. It occurs to me that we easily forget to bless others. As believers, we can know in our hearts that God is Sovereign and strong. We can believe that His plans for us, for our loved ones, are for good and that He has blessing in store as we follow after Him. Yet often, when life presses and things feel stressed, when problems overwhelm, and hardships come our way, our focus gets blurred. We somehow start to believe that it all depends on "us." Somehow we come to believe the subtle deception of the world and begin to think that our circumstances are completely our responsibility. If we failed it is on us that we are off the path of peace and success. So, we begin to work harder trying to find a fast way out of difficulty. Trying hard to get one foot into an open door, or wondering why a closed one shut. We start thinking that if we're not "able enough," "talented enough," "brave enough," that maybe God can't quite bless us. We forget that the very God who created this entire universe, who holds the stars in place, and knows the exact number of hairs on our head, also knows our way. That His favor rests on us as we seek after Him first, and He holds the power to cause things to happen in just a moment, that would otherwise take us years to do. He can line up our pathways to cross with others He wants us to meet. He can open doors that leave us surprised at how they open. He can close doors that He knows are not the best for us. He has a plan, in the good, and in every hard thing we face. Take this blessing and make it yours today!

Victim or Victor?

When Joseph's brothers saw that their father was dead, they said, “It may be that Joseph will hate us and pay us back for all the evil that we did to him.” So they sent a message to Joseph, saying, “Your father gave this command before he died: ‘Say to Joseph, “Please forgive the transgression of your brothers and their sin, because they did evil to you.”’ And now, please forgive the transgression of the servants of the God of your father.” Joseph wept when they spoke to him. His brothers also came and fell down before him and said, “Behold, we are your servants.” But Joseph said to them, “Do not fear, for am I in the place of God? As for you, you meant evil against me, but God meant it for good, to bring it about that many people should be kept alive, as they are today. So do not fear; I will provide for you and your little ones.” Thus he comforted them and spoke kindly to them. (Genesis 50:15-21 ESV).

The reading today is from one of my most well read and studied stories of the Old Testament. The life of Joseph has so many incredible applications in our lives. Today’s focal verse is “As for you, you meant evil against me, but God meant it for good, to bring it about that many people should be kept alive, as they are today”(v. 50). Today, I want to encourage you in whatever part of your journey you find yourself. I can find fault in both Joseph and his prideful declarations early in his youth, and in his family for their refusal to believe and trust in God for their personal positions. Joseph came to understand the greatest gift God had given him was the position of victor. There are two principles for us in these verses. The first is the acknowledgment of the reality of his pain. He replied to them, “As for you, you meant evil against me.” This is Old Testament Joseph, reminding his brothers what they all knew. Their treatment of him had been abusive. Their jealousy, their plotting, their berating of him as worthless, their kidnap and sale of him to passing slave traders was not just a series of bad choices. It was worse than bad behavior was evil. We need to recognize evil when it encroaches into our lives. That requires a serious inventory of our experiences and circumstances. Be honest with yourself. The second principle is that God ordained it all for his good. He followed his first statement with, “But God meant it for good.” They’d intended to do him harm, and yet Joseph had never really been under their power. He’d been under the power of Almighty God, all the while, who was causing all things to “work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose” (cf. Romans 8:28). Ultimately we must accept that God will accomplish this good in our lives regardless of how our circumstance might appear. Joseph was not their victim. No child of God is ever really a victim. God is always bigger, always greater, and His plans cannot be thwarted by others’ bad behavior. We are victors, never victims. Take heart!

Random Thoughts on a Winter's Day - Pt 3

But now thus says the Lord, he who created you, O Jacob, he who formed you, O Israel: “Fear not, for I have redeemed you; I have called you by name, you are mine. When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and through the rivers, they shall not overwhelm you; when you walk through fire you shall not be burned, and the flame shall not consume you. For I am the Lord your God, the Holy One of Israel, your Savior.” (Isaiah 43:1-3 ESV).

I can always “see” God on the warm, sunny days of the year better than the cold, gray days. That’s true physically and emotionally. The picture I’ve chosen today comes from a farm in Tennessee where I have hunted in the past. This particular view was taken in December on a cold, drizzly day when even the deer had better sense than to be out. I took the photo after the morning hunt was done and I was walking back to my truck for some warmth and a short ride home. As I trudged back to the truck about all I thought or felt was the failed hunt. However, I remembered thinking what stories this old barn could tell if it could speak. I wondered what times it had experienced. Perhaps there were joyous moments within its now crumbling walls when new births were welcomed into the world. There may have been sadder moments when age, or infirmity took the lives of some of the animals that sought refuge within it. The bones of the structure are old enough to have seen the horrors of the Civil War as opposing forces fought for what they believed in. It certainly could speak of the darkest of those days. It’s now simply forgotten, waiting for time and weather to consume it. It is easy to feel like that. So, I am brought to another short muse on this winter’s day. We are loved, even on our darkest days. God loves you so much. He loves you enough to give His Son for you, to watch His Son die for you, to put the sins of the world on His back for you. That is incredible love. Some days we may feel undeserving, blemished, or bruised. But God doesn’t see us that way. He sees forgiveness. He sees us as His beloved children, and there is nothing we may do to remove that beautiful image from His mind. On your darkest days, remember that He is with you. Remember that He loves you. Remember that He will never forsake you. Remember that His Son died for you, and all you need to do is repent and believe in Jesus and the forgiveness of sins. Then be cleansed, renewed, replace dark with light, and start again in His name.

Random Thoughts on a Winter's Day - Pt 2

The name of the Lord is a strong tower; the righteous man runs into it and is safe. A rich man's wealth is his strong city, and like a high wall in his imagination. Before destruction a man's heart is haughty, but humility comes before honor. If one gives an answer before he hears, it is his folly and shame. A man's spirit will endure sickness, but a crushed spirit who can bear? An intelligent heart acquires knowledge, and the ear of the wise seeks knowledge. (Proverbs 18:10-15 ESV).

Our reading takes me to another muse on this winter day. We can find strength and security in the name of the Lord. Our reading declares that the Lord is a “strong tower” to any who seek security within. At one time or another circumstance will encroach into our feelings of security. We have a martin house in back yard. When I installed it I followed the instructions precisely making certain that it was the right height, far enough away from other trees with an open approach from every direction. All of the entrance holes to the 16 nesting chambers were just the right size and shape to prevent other birds from nesting in them. And, yet, the ubiquitous English sparrow has found a way to seize the house! Now, when the martins return they will drive the sparrows away, but for now I have winter sparrows in my yard. I suppose I could stop feeding the birds that frequent my yard, though that seems cruel to all the other species that have decided Texas winters are not so bad after all. Many people have an obsession for safety. The story is told of a wealthy Australian in the 1930’s, dismayed by signs that a global conflict was inevitable, decided to find a safe place to live. He chose a tiny island in the Pacific called Guadalcanal. We know how that “safe” place turned out! Please understand it is not wrong to seek safety from all of the dangers and disasters of life. However, our primary concern should be our spiritual safety, and there’s only one place to find that. It’s in the “name of the Lord,” which the writer of Proverbs called a “strong tower.” In his time, people fled to a well-fortified tower for safety from enemy attack. So he used that figure of speech to describe God’s name, which stands for who God is, the almighty, holy, and loving Creator-Sustainer of all things. You can find strength in His name. There may be moments when our faith falters, when we’re lonely or exhausted or just plain sad. There will be moments where grief grabs us and crushes us under its cruelty. When all that we’ve believed feels empty, and when each breath feels like a chore, then we may find redemption and power in His name. In these moments, follow Him, He will guide you away from the heartbreak, the loneliness, the death, the loss, the toughest moments of your life, and back into His arms!

Random Thoughts on a Winter's Day - Pt 1

Where shall I go from your Spirit? Or where shall I flee from your presence? If I ascend to heaven, you are there! If I make my bed in Sheol, you are there! If I take the wings of the morning and dwell in the uttermost parts of the sea, even there your hand shall lead me, and your right hand shall hold me. If I say, “Surely the darkness shall cover me, and the light about me be night,” even the darkness is not dark to you; the night is bright as the day, for darkness is as light with you. (Psalm 139:7-12 ESV).

We’ve had a little while of cold weather here lately. Usually in our area of Texas the weather will turn cold with some freezing, perhaps even a little ice or snow, however it never lasts very long until the temperature climbs a bit and the sun warms the air enough to make it tolerable. But, since I really don’t do well in weather below eighty degrees, winter seems a good time to stay inside and do other things. That’s what I have been doing lately. The results are these Random Thoughts on a Winter’s Day. I hope they will encourage and inspire you in your journey each day. The first of these muses is that God is with you, wherever you are. Our reading today makes it very clear that God is present with us everywhere we may find ourselves at anytime we find ourselves there. However, there is another passage that brings another element to this truth. It adds the truth that God is not merely present, he is eternally protective: No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. For I am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord. (Romans 8:38-39 ESV). That’s easy to remember when things are going well in our lives. It’s those times, whether through our own choices or simple circumstance where our hearts are weighed down with heaviness and dread. I’ve found those are the times when we feel separated from God. But, the truth is that God sees all of that. He sees our mess, our brokenness, our pain. And He loves us. There is nowhere we can go to escape his protective love and compassion for us. There is no point in our lives where He sees us as undeserving or unworthy of grace and love. There is nothing we can do to separate ourselves from Him. So, even if you feel like you’ve gone so far from His grace that there is no possible means of return, know that He never left. It is not the strength of your grip on his hand, but the strength of the grip of his hand on you!

What is Truth? - Pt 2

So Jesus said to the Jews who had believed him, “If you abide in my word, you are truly my disciples, and you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free. (John 8:31-32 ESV).

What is truth? Answering that question is made more difficult in view of the fact that all of us lie. It might be a lie to sell something or a lie to make yourself feel better. It could be a lie to help somebody else or perhaps to make another feel better. Perhaps you just exaggerate (preachers call that “ministerially speaking”). You brag. That’s not lying, right? That’s just expanding something to be more than it should be. There probably wouldn’t be any harm if we didn’t live such nuanced lives. A required smile is just a glint away from a genuine grin. A really great product is only a few words away from a product that often fails to work. Life becomes nuance and wordplay; and, freedom is pushed further from our reach. I do believe that unaltered, unbiased truth without the spin of nuance is the source of freedom. It is not freedom from work, or pain, or tribulation; however, it is freedom from the shame and guilt of our failure that erode away at our joy. When we find the truth, we find freedom that reaches out to catch us when we start to fall. So, what’s the truth? Or, better yet, how do we recognize it when we see it? Well, here’s a simple definition drawn from what the Bible teaches: Truth is that which is consistent with the mind, will, character, glory, and being of God. Even more to the point: Truth is the self-expression of God. That is the biblical meaning of truth. Because the definition of truth flows from God, truth is theological. If I am working on a project in the shop and the plan calls for a length of cut at sixty inches, it simply must be sixty inches. The real key is in the measurement. And, that requires a standard from which measuring tools are compared. Without detailing the ancient origin of the “inch” let me simply say there is a standard, replicable length which is accepted as such. For the truth, the standard is God. If you want accuracy in your life that sets you free, measure it against God. John MacArthur wrote: “In fact, the one most valuable lesson humanity ought to have learned from philosophy is that it is impossible to make sense of truth without acknowledging God as the necessary starting point. Truth is not subjective, it is not a consensual cultural construct, and it is not an invalid, outdated, irrelevant concept. Truth is the self-expression of God. Find God, you will know the truth. Find Jesus and you will know God. Read the Bible you will find Jesus. Then, and only then will you be set free. Maybe “WWJD” (What Would Jesus Do) was not just trendy!

What is Truth? - Pt 1

So Pilate entered his headquarters again and called Jesus and said to him, “Are you the King of the Jews?” Jesus answered, “Do you say this of your own accord, or did others say it to you about me?” Pilate answered, “Am I a Jew? Your own nation and the chief priests have delivered you over to me. What have you done?” Jesus answered, “My kingdom is not of this world. If my kingdom were of this world, my servants would have been fighting, that I might not be delivered over to the Jews. But my kingdom is not from the world.” Then Pilate said to him, “So you are a king?” Jesus answered, “You say that I am a king. For this purpose I was born and for this purpose I have come into the world—to bear witness to the truth. Everyone who is of the truth listens to my voice.” Pilate said to him, “What is truth?” After he had said this, he went back outside to the Jews and told them, “I find no guilt in him. (John 18:33-38 ESV).

Whatever your preferred source of “truth” it is a rare individual who doesn’t marvel at the stark contrast of any “fair and balanced” talk show host interviewing representatives of opposing positions. I have chosen our reading today carefully as I begin a little journey in the discovery of the truth. The easy answer to our title question is always that the Bible is the truth; and, while that is true, I have found it a little more complicated than that when it comes to specific applications in many of the decisions of our lives. Use your imagination for a bit. Imagine that you turn your attention to a news program and find any one of the “most trusted” (according to recent polls) anchors: Lester Holt, Anderson Cooper, Brian Williams, Chris Wallace, Chuck Todd, or any of a longer list. Seated beside them, or on camera from another location you see Caiaphas, the high priest of Israel at the time of Jesus’ arrest, and the Apostle John. The news anchor in an effort toward fairness cues a clip showing Jesus teaching the multitudes the Beatitudes. He then breaks to another clip showing Jesus overturning the money changers tables in the temple and driving them away with a bundle of grain stalks. Ultimately, he will show another clip of Jesus in chains and Pilate asking the question, “What is truth?” At that moment, any number of answers is likely. Caiaphas will certainly rail against the absurdity of thinking such a man could be stable. He may even go on a rant about the need for stricter control of dangerous weapons like a bundle of grain stalks being so easily accessible. His talking points would be checked off one by one to further his agenda and position. Finally the host catches the first responder in taking a breath and turns to John with the same question. He responds with example after example of how Jesus was kind, compassionate, an incredible teacher, and healer. Time runs out for the segment and we are left, like Pilate, wondering, “What is the truth?” So let’s go back to the starting point and answer the question: What is truth? The short answer is that the truth can only be found in faith. That is not a faith in a social or political position; it is not trusting in a system of governance; and, it is not a faith in any institution. The faith that brings us to truth is a faith in God. Only seeking him in a vibrant, personal relationship will bring us to the truth. And, that is the only truth that sets us free! Seek his face!