Expectations

And getting into a boat he crossed over and came to his own city. And behold, some people brought to him a paralytic, lying on a bed. And when Jesus saw their faith, he said to the paralytic, “Take heart, my son; your sins are forgiven.” And behold, some of the scribes said to themselves, “This man is blaspheming.” But Jesus, knowing their thoughts, said, “Why do you think evil in your hearts? For which is easier, to say, ‘Your sins are forgiven,’ or to say, ‘Rise and walk’? But that you may know that the Son of Man has authority on earth to forgive sins”—he then said to the paralytic—“Rise, pick up your bed and go home.” And he rose and went home. When the crowds saw it, they were afraid, and they glorified God, who had given such authority to men. (Matthew 9:1-8 ESV). I have a confession. It’s one week before Christmas and we have not put a tree up in our house. Mary and I decided to forego the traditional tree in favor of getting everything else put in its place from our final unpack and the move from Tennessee. We did put out a few decorations, but our house is not nearly as festive as it has been in years past. I must also admit that I’m a little disappointed about that. I suppose that I could’ve avoided my disappointment by adjusting my expectations based on the final schedule of the move and the completion of the house. Strange how easy that sounds and how hard that is to actually accomplish. That’s especially true this time of the year, isn’t it? Let me give you a few examples. Picture yourself seated at a beautifully decorated Christmas dining table. Cheerful Christmas music plays softly and a twinkling Christmas tree stands in the background. This is the time of peace on earth, good will toward others. Now picture your family and relatives all sitting together around the table. Do you picture them… arguing? Sometimes, in spite of our efforts, people disagree disagreeably, even at Christmas. Or, perhaps you’re hoping that this year your children will be cheerful, patient and thoughtful of others. Well, if that’s how they are from January to November, you might have a shot at it in December. Or you might find them pulling ornaments off the Christmas tree and opening presents saying, “I already have this.” Christmas is packed with expectations. There is a better way to approach this time of the year. Look at why we have Christmas. Christmas is celebrated because of the birth of Jesus. Now the whole world doesn’t celebrate my birthday. Why is he so special? Well, Jesus said he was God. If you look at Buddha or Confucius or other religious leaders, often it was their followers who declared them “God” long after they were dead. In contrast, Jesus clearly and repetitively told people he was God. Jesus said he could give people eternal life and forgiveness for their sins. That brings things into a better focus. Looking toward Jesus guarantees hope, and that produces peace. Give it a try!