Go Away!

So if there is any encouragement in Christ, any comfort from love, any participation in the Spirit, any affection and sympathy, complete my joy by being of the same mind, having the same love, being in full accord and of one mind. Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves. Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others. (Philippians 2:1-4 ESV). I am often drawn to our reading today for a source of inspiration and encouragement. It seems to be a fathomless well. No matter how often I draw from its wisdom, there is always another cool drink to draw. Today I want to draw from the last verse of the reading. The Apostle Paul encourages us to look to the interests of others. The truth is that our present culture has come to believe this is not a profitable compass for our life. In fact, when it comes to serving others, most tend to live with a mindset that posts a “Do Not Disturb” sign over our heart. We think: “I’m too busy.” “Leave me alone.” “I don’t want to get involved.” “I’ve got my own agenda.”

We have a chainsaw carved bear made in the Smoky Mountains that sits in our family room. It is holding a sign that says “Welcome” on one side and “Go Away” on the other. I have often wondered if I would ever really turn it to the latter of those two sides in seriousness. I suppose that there are times when I need to just tell people to go away. I am sure that no one really wants to be around me when I’m sick and grumpy. That’s usually the time when Mary shuts me in the bedroom and shoves food under the door! But, I would hope that I would never really turn a deaf ear to those around me. Unfortunately I think our culture as a whole feels differently. The prevailing attitude is generally very self-centered. We saw yesterday that self-control is important to success. Today we should also understand that a successful life begins when we realize it’s not all about us. When we get to know our heavenly Father through Jesus Christ, and begin to worship God and serve Him, we realize the way we can deepen our relationship with Him is to serve our fellow man, especially those in need. “It’s all about me” is incredibly selfish, and it leads to emptiness. Sharing your time and talent with others is one of the keys to discovering your real source of joy and happiness. As we approach this season of Thanksgiving and Advent there are many opportunities to share kindness with others. Who will you “welcome” in the weeks to come? You will not be sorry you made the effort to go beyond yourself!