Opposites

One of the Pharisees asked him to eat with him, and he went into the Pharisee's house and reclined at table. And behold, a woman of the city, who was a sinner, when she learned that he was reclining at table in the Pharisee's house, brought an alabaster flask of ointment, and standing behind him at his feet, weeping, she began to wet his feet with her tears and wiped them with the hair of her head and kissed his feet and anointed them with the ointment. Now when the Pharisee who had invited him saw this, he said to himself, “If this man were a prophet, he would have known who and what sort of woman this is who is touching him, for she is a sinner.” (Luke 7:36-39 ESV).

I saw a cartoon recently. It pictured two opposite opinions being fought over in the ear of a popular comedy character. We have seen many idioms and phrases used to describe such differences. Black and white and everything in between; on a scale from one to ten; or opposites ends of the spectrum are just some of the phrases we use to describe such contrasting beliefs. Our reading today pictures a scene where there were two very different kinds of people present with Jesus. Jesus had been invited to dinner by some of the prestigious religious leaders in town. It was not really a social courtesy, but they wanted to quiz Him and find out where He was coming from; they were testing Him. And then, just after the first course was served, a young, beautiful woman enters, drops to the ground beside Jesus, weeping so hard she actually uses her tears to wash his feet, wiping them with her hair. It was a stark contrast between the smug self-centeredness of the Pharisees and the humble earnestness of the young woman. It is a very easy picture for me to imagine. The Pharisees, jaws dropped to the floor, eyes the size of saucers are sitting at the table when this woman comes in fawning over Jesus. The woman was of questionable reputation. Men of good reputation would never allow this. But those Pharisees, they’re like a lot of good, long-time church folks who are quick to judge known sinners while being blind to their own sin. But this woman had a great appreciation for Jesus because she was keenly aware of the immoral life she had lived. She was overcome by the forgiveness Christ offered her. So there she was, her hair wet with tears, washing the feet of Jesus in an act of pure worship and gratitude. There were two very different responses to Jesus. It is profitable to reflect a bit about who we most identify with. Is it the religious moralists who felt they were right with God by their outward righteousness? Or is it the sinful woman who knew she deserved God’s judgment and was surprise by His grace? I pray I am always in the latter of those groups. How about you?

Two Billion Opinions

As for the one who is weak in faith, welcome him, but not to quarrel over opinions. One person believes he may eat anything, while the weak person eats only vegetables. Let not the one who eats despise the one who abstains, and let not the one who abstains pass judgment on the one who eats, for God has welcomed him. Who are you to pass judgment on the servant of another? It is before his own master that he stands or falls. And he will be upheld, for the Lord is able to make him stand. One person esteems one day as better than another, while another esteems all days alike. Each one should be fully convinced in his own mind. The one who observes the day, observes it in honor of the Lord. The one who eats, eats in honor of the Lord, since he gives thanks to God, while the one who abstains, abstains in honor of the Lord and gives thanks to God. For none of us lives to himself, and none of us dies to himself. For if we live, we live to the Lord, and if we die, we die to the Lord. So then, whether we live or whether we die, we are the Lord's. For to this end Christ died and lived again, that he might be Lord both of the dead and of the living. (Romans 14:1-9 ESV). Currently, Christianity has over two billion adherents divided into three great movements: Catholic, Eastern Orthodox, and Protestant. And the Protestants are divided into over 600 separate denominations. With that kind of diversity, it’s inevitable that there will be disagreement over many doctrines within the whole of Christianity. Sometimes it may even appear that there are two billion opinions about a single point of belief.

But when it comes to the central issues, what we believe about Jesus, most are in solid agreement. Most Christians, regardless of denomination, regardless of language, no matter their nationality believe in the most basic principles of our shared faith. We believe Jesus was born of a virgin; He is both fully God and fully man. Christ paid the penalty for our sins when He died on the cross. He rose from the dead and ascended to heaven and is reigning at the right hand of the Father. We know that He will come again one day, and when He comes, it will be judgment on the ultimate and final anti-Christ, and all of his followers, as well as a moment of the ultimate salvation for those who follow Jesus. Sounds easy, doesn’t it? I am convinced that while there may be differences on secondary doctrinal issues, most Christians, regardless of “denomination,” have these core convictions. We have much more in common than not. So, why is there such dissension and difference among believers? It may be that we have not really learned how to be present with the Lord. Most of our disagreements will be sorted out once and for all when Jesus comes. I need to believe Jesus is the Son of God, Savior of mankind, and coming King of all creation. Of course its fine to disagree on the rest of theology, just don’t divide over the doubtful things.

Holidays

Then children were brought to him that he might lay his hands on them and pray. The disciples rebuked the people, but Jesus said, “Let the little children come to me and do not hinder them, for to such belongs the kingdom of heaven.” And he laid his hands on them and went away. (Matthew 19:13-15 ESV).

“Tis the season”… at least for holidays. Last week was Thanksgiving. Perhaps you got some time off from work to enjoy with your friends and family. If you have younger children that you care for, you were also busy with them while they were on holiday from school. Perhaps you have taken a trip to one of the malls or larger department stores and brought your children to see “Santa.” Most react with joy and unbridled happiness; however, there are those few who somehow are simply overcome with fear and anxiety. They scream and kick trying to secure their freedom from the jolly old elf’s lap. The photographer does their best trying to capture some moment of the experience that doesn’t reflect that terror. Inevitably they will fail miserably, even with mom and dad cajoling and cooing to quiet their unruly charges. I can’t imagine what it feels like for the person playing the part of Santa. No one can long tolerate that kind of abuse. Our reading reflects another time and a different line of children waiting to see a great Man. I can imagine how the parents pushed and shoved their children, hoping the famous prophet would touch them. His assistants, thinking they were protecting Him from unwanted demands, tried to keep the kids away, but this man was indignant with His assistants. He said, “Let the children come to Me.” He took them in His arms and hugged them, and all the kids loved Him. The man’s name was Jesus. He showed His well-intentioned disciples how important children are to God. They all seemed to recognize His love and concern for them individually. It was an opportunity for Jesus to teach both his disciples and the parents of the children an important lesson. Jesus said, “… to such belongs the Kingdom of God.” Their unashamed faith and trust of Jesus illustrate the trust we are to have in Him. Additionally, we see the incredible need to make time for family. The man who lived an incredibly busy life, but was never too busy for children painted a clear picture in real life for all of us. There are many ways to do that. Sometimes a child’s importance is shown when we give a listening ear or a hug. These are those moments when time is what they want and need. When it comes to your kids, ask the Lord to help you be like Jesus. No job is more important than that. The holidays are a parenthesis in our busy schedules when we may be able to give the gift of time to our children more than ever. Try it.

Teenagers!

When the Philistine arose and came and drew near to meet David, David ran quickly toward the battle line to meet the Philistine. And David put his hand in his bag and took out a stone and slung it and struck the Philistine on his forehead. The stone sank into his forehead, and he fell on his face to the ground. So David prevailed over the Philistine with a sling and with a stone, and struck the Philistine and killed him. There was no sword in the hand of David. Then David ran and stood over the Philistine and took his sword and drew it out of its sheath and killed him and cut off his head with it. When the Philistines saw that their champion was dead, they fled. (1 Samuel 17:48-51 ESV).

Today is one of the milestone kinds of days for our family. My oldest grandchildren are teenagers today! Happy Birthday to Faith and Logan! This picture was taken a while ago, and they have changed dramatically with just one year of growth and maturity. I chose to illustrate another truth. While they are beginning a faster pace of growth toward independence and adulthood, they are essential to God and his will as they are now. Serving God is not limited by their age or physical growth. One of the best known stories in the Bible is our reading today. It is the story of David and Goliath. When this story took place David was probably only 17 years old. In this reading we see David as an obedient son, a brave soldier, and, above all, a young man who fully trusted God. David was told by his father to take provisions to his brothers who were fighting in the Israelite army against the Philistines. When David arrived he heard the champion of the Philistines, the giant Goliath, blaspheming the name of the God of Israel. David could not stand that someone would speak evil of the Lord. He was surprised that the army of Israel was not doing something about the wicked threats against God. David presented himself before King Saul as someone who would go to fight Goliath one on one. David could not use the king’s armor that was offered to him because it was something he was not accustomed to using. Since David had battled lions and bears using his bare hands and a sling, he figured he would do the same with Goliath. David chose 5 smooth stones from the riverbed and rushed to fight Goliath. With a single stone he was able to knock the giant to the ground. Then David took Goliath’s own sword and killed him by cutting off his head. It was an incredible victory. Faith and Logan haven’t had any battles with giants; however, they have the same power of God available to them for every moment of their lives. As they continue to grow, I am confident they will draw on that strength and achieve success in every circumstance. Their God will not let them down. He works for their good just as he does all of us who are his children. I pray you will be encouraged today to do the same!

Whitewashed

“Woe to you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! For you are like whitewashed tombs, which outwardly appear beautiful, but within are full of dead people's bones and all uncleanness. So you also outwardly appear righteous to others, but within you are full of hypocrisy and lawlessness. Woe to you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! For you build the tombs of the prophets and decorate the monuments of the righteous, saying, ‘If we had lived in the days of our fathers, we would not have taken part with them in shedding the blood of the prophets.’ Thus you witness against yourselves that you are sons of those who murdered the prophets. Fill up, then, the measure of your fathers. You serpents, you brood of vipers, how are you to escape being sentenced to hell? Therefore I send you prophets and wise men and scribes, some of whom you will kill and crucify, and some you will flog in your synagogues and persecute from town to town, so that on you may come all the righteous blood shed on earth, from the blood of righteous Abel to the blood of Zechariah the son of Barachiah, whom you murdered between the sanctuary and the altar.” (Matthew 23:27-35 ESV). Have you heard that the fountain pen is making a comeback? After many years of neglect, fountain pens are once again in vogue. Made of fine materials and carrying a high price tag, they are now part of the well-dressed, executive look. There is something interesting about fountain pens. They may look great, but unless they’re full of ink, they’re really not very useful. Without the right things on the inside, the outside is useless.

Jesus used this same principle when he spoke concerning the Pharisees. He called them “whitewashed tombs.” They were painted to look clean on the outside, but it had no effect on the inside. There were still only bones and the decay of death inside. The same is true of people today. We spend money and time to make the outside attractive. Looking good outside may impress people, but unless there’s something inside equally attractive, the outside is merely a covering for ugliness. You see, only God knows what is inside of us. He looks at our heart and our spirit. What does He see in you? Is it ugly, or is it good? The good news is, He offers us a gift, His Son, who will make us beautiful from the inside out. Outward appearance is important, but unless there is something good inside, it’s merely a covering for ugliness. What’s more important in your life, what you look like outwardly; or, do you cultivate that which is within? Compassion, kindness, grace toward others are only a few of the inner marks of beauty that we can develop and show to others through our interaction with them. The holidays are a very stressful time. Use this time to bless others with your inner beauty.

Touchdown Jesus

Behold, a day is coming for the LORD, when the spoil taken from you will be divided in your midst. For I will gather all the nations against Jerusalem to battle, and the city shall be taken and the houses plundered and the women raped. Half of the city shall go out into exile, but the rest of the people shall not be cut off from the city. Then the LORD will go out and fight against those nations as when he fights on a day of battle. On that day his feet shall stand on the Mount of Olives that lies before Jerusalem on the east, and the Mount of Olives shall be split in two from east to west by a very wide valley, so that one half of the Mount shall move northward, and the other half southward. And you shall flee to the valley of my mountains, for the valley of the mountains shall reach to Azal. And you shall flee as you fled from the earthquake in the days of Uzziah king of Judah. Then the LORD my God will come, and all the holy ones with him. (Zechariah 14:1-5 ESV).

I love college football season whether the Aggies win or lose. This time of the year you get all the pageantry of the event, the fans cheering, the big games, the great rivalries. With every new season there’s always anticipation and hope. Will the players rise to the challenge, or will some bad play cost the team a game? Or even a season? And certainly no play in football is more important than the touchdown which is the goal of every drive. Notre Dame Football is especially tradition bound. Once the ’64 football season started, with Ara Parsegian’s first year and Heisman John Huarte throwing TD passes to Jack Snow, Touchdown Jesus was born. It was particulary visible the higher you were in the south portion of stadium, and perfectly positioned for the cameras atop the West side press box in Notre Dame Stadium. The nickname caught on right away and, along with the camera and aerial shots of the Golden Dome and Sacred Heart, appears on every telecast. Touchdown Jesus is known to millions who have never been near Notre Dame stadium. The next time you watch a Notre Dame telecast, note how long it is before they show some or all of Touchdown Jesus. Did you know the Bible speaks about a touchdown, the greatest touchdown ever? It’s something Jews and Christians alike will agree on. The Bible says it’s going to happen just as time is running out, at the end of the game. The Messiah is going to “touch down” on the Mount of Olives in Israel. He’s coming for those who are on His team, and to judge those who are not. His touchdown will mean victory for His team, and lasting defeat for the opponents. The question is, are you going to be one who celebrates His touchdown, or one who loses the ultimate game of life? This is determined by your relationship to Jesus. In fact, it is a simple moment of faith. You never need play one down of the game. Jesus has already done that and won! Trust in Him today!

Count It All Joy!

Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness. And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing. If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him. But let him ask in faith, with no doubting, for the one who doubts is like a wave of the sea that is driven and tossed by the wind. For that person must not suppose that he will receive anything from the Lord; he is a double-minded man, unstable in all his ways. (James 1:2-8 ESV).

Have you ever wondered how the turkey must feel as we get close to Thanksgiving? I know that technically you would easily be able to say that the turkey has no thoughts about such things; after all, they are just birds. That’s true, but I tend to let my mind wander through such crazy thoughts with full freedom. What if they did feel, or think? What would Thanksgiving mean to them? It would be somewhat like the chicken and the pig thinking about making breakfast for the farmer. The chicken tells the pig that they could fix some bacon and eggs for the farmer and the pig retorts that there is a big difference between what he has to give and what the chicken has to give. One is a small gift and the other is a full commitment! I do know I wouldn’t want to be the pig! Maybe turkeys are like that. Or maybe they just wonder why things didn’t work out differently for them. You may remember that Benjamin Franklin wanted the turkey to be our national bird instead of the bald eagle. He definitely didn’t like the idea of the bald eagle as our national bird. In a letter to his daughter, Franklin wrote that the bald eagle is “a bird of bad moral character” because he steals food from other birds rather than hunting for his own. In the same letter, Franklin wrote that he thought the artwork for the Presidential Seal looked more like a turkey than a bald eagle. To Franklin, the idea of a turkey as our national bird was preferable. Of the turkey, he wrote that it was a vain, silly bird, but nonetheless “a bird of courage, and would not hesitate to attack a grenadier of the British Guards who should presume to invade his farm yard with a red coat on.” Sounds better than a destiny to end up on someone’s dinner table! Well, it takes me to our reading today. I know that’s a leap for some; but, aren’t we like that sometimes when we face trials. It is always much easier to think about others and how unfair life can seem at times. We really should understand that all those “unfair” times of difficulty are God’s tools for bringing good into our lives. Maybe that’s the real emphasis of Thanksgiving. Perhaps we should take inventory of the many things God has done good for us as a result of the bad circumstances of our lives. That would be a great foundation for truly being thankful. Count it all joy!

True Greatness

And James and John, the sons of Zebedee, came up to him and said to him, “Teacher, we want you to do for us whatever we ask of you.” And he said to them, “What do you want me to do for you?” And they said to him, “Grant us to sit, one at your right hand and one at your left, in your glory.” Jesus said to them, “You do not know what you are asking. Are you able to drink the cup that I drink, or to be baptized with the baptism with which I am baptized?” And they said to him, “We are able.” And Jesus said to them, “The cup that I drink you will drink, and with the baptism with which I am baptized, you will be baptized, but to sit at my right hand or at my left is not mine to grant, but it is for those for whom it has been prepared.” And when the ten heard it, they began to be indignant at James and John. And Jesus called them to him and said to them, “You know that those who are considered rulers of the Gentiles lord it over them, and their great ones exercise authority over them. But it shall not be so among you. But whoever would be great among you must be your servant, and whoever would be first among you must be slave of all. For even the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.” (Mark 10:35-45 ESV). Everyone has some pull within them to be great. The real problem for many is in determining what true greatness really is. The world measures greatness in different ways. Probably the most common way that the world defines greatness is accomplishment, people that achieve great things. You might go back into ancient history and think about Alexander the Great, because he conquered the known world by the time he was 33 years old, and then wept that there were no more worlds to conquer. Or you may think about Thomas Edison with over a thousand patents to his name. Or consider Einstein and his amazing discoveries in quantum physics. Others would say real greatness is all about power. In Jesus’ time, Caesar Augustus would be considered truly great because of all the power he held. In the modern world, you might look at US presidents, or other national leaders for the definition of greatness. Surely if you become such a powerful leader you are great. However, the answer is not in wealth, accomplishment, or power. It is both much simpler and much more complex than that. Jesus tells us how: “…whoever wishes to become great among you shall be your servant; and whoever wishes to be first among you shall be slave of all.” Jesus – the greatest man to ever exist says He didn’t come to be served; He came to serve, even to the point of trading His life for our salvation. The greatest man was also the greatest servant. And that is what He calls us to do. He calls us follow in the footsteps of Jesus and to serve our fellow man. It’s the only lasting road to greatness. How great are you today?

Love Never Ends

Love never ends. As for prophecies, they will pass away; as for tongues, they will cease; as for knowledge, it will pass away. For we know in part and we prophesy in part, but when the perfect comes, the partial will pass away. When I was a child, I spoke like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I gave up childish ways. For now we see in a mirror dimly, but then face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I have been fully known. So now faith, hope, and love abide, these three; but the greatest of these is love. (1 Corinthians 13:8-13 ESV).

In 2001, the Oscar for Best Picture was awarded to A Beautiful Mind. The movie tells the story of John Nash, a Princeton professor who overcame mental illness and developed theories that eventually led to his being awarded the Nobel Prize in Economics. As inspiring as the story is showing his fight against schizophrenia, the movie is even more impactful as a beautiful love story. Alicia Nash stuck by the often-deranged genius, loving him, caring for him, and steadying him, despite the fact that Nash brought nothing to the marriage but strain and heartache. Even though he was totally incapacitated because of his mental illness, she stuck with him, even at times when her own life was endangered. As the film concludes, John Nash stands before an admiring audience of the world’s greatest intellectuals, accepting the prize recognizing his monumental achievement. Nash uses the moment, the apex of his life, to declare that there was really only one thing that mattered in his life, and that was the love of his wife, who had stayed with him all those years. No matter what else was discovered in his life, Alicia Nash had taught the professor that there is no greater achievement than the commitment “for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, ’til death do us part.” The more I see our culture’s family implode, the more I am convinced that the concept of these phrase are simply lost on most people. As the divorce rate continues to approach 60% of first-time marriages and 85% of subsequent marriages we ought to take stock of what it really means to commit to our spouse in good and bad, rich and poor, and health and illness. The season of Thanksgiving is a great time to take stock of our true commitment to our families. While there are many of you who undoubtedly are walking through some of the bad times, please seek help to find your way through this part of your journey keeping your family intact. The bad will be turned to good, and the Lord will grant you peace in the end. Faith, hope, and love abide, but the greatest of these is love. Practice that in your life.

Friends

A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity. One who lacks sense gives a pledge and puts up security in the presence of his neighbor. Whoever loves transgression loves strife; he who makes his door high seeks destruction. A man of crooked heart does not discover good, and one with a dishonest tongue falls into calamity. (Proverbs 17:17-20 ESV).

I suppose the past few days have been very nostalgic for me. I seem to be turning to the many reminders I have in my “new” office of the experiences of friendships past more and more these days. I guess that’s because I have been many months away from those reminders while we built the house. It has been wonderful to reminisce. I am certainly going to make a mistake by just mentioning one of those experiences since there are so many; however, as I look at the turkey we have displayed in full strut that I harvested several years ago in Tennessee it reminded me of the many hours I spent with Sheriff Bucky Rowland. We always did a wild game banquet at the church and I couldn’t imagine being able to do it without his help along with many others from our church. Those memories brought me to our reading today. True friendship is a gift that doesn’t come nearly as often as one my think. I’ve been blessed to have several of those friends through the years. I like what Ralph Waldo Emerson said: “A friend is a person with whom I may be sincere and before him I may think aloud. The only reward of virtue is virtue; the only way to have a friend is to be one.” Walter Winchell defines a friend as “one who walks in when others walk out.” Someone else has said a friend is “a man who laughs at your funny stories, even when they ain’t so good, and sympathizes with your misfortunes, even when they ain’t so bad.” Do you have such a friend? Do you know true friendship? Many, I’m sad to say, have to answer no. The good news is this: you can have a best friend forever. That friend is Jesus Christ. I encourage you to get to know Him. You’ll never be disappointed. He’ll always be there with you. And, when you begin to move in that direction it is inevitable that you will find community in the gathering of fellow believers. God has a friend for you. Seek that person out. Ask God to lead you to that person who will “love at all times” and has been “born for adversity.” You will be as grateful as I am for such people in your life.

The Mantle Clock

Therefore do not be ashamed of the testimony about our Lord, nor of me his prisoner, but share in suffering for the gospel by the power of God, who saved us and called us to a holy calling, not because of our works but because of his own purpose and grace, which he gave us in Christ Jesus before the ages began, and which now has been manifested through the appearing of our Savior Christ Jesus, who abolished death and brought life and immortality to light through the gospel, for which I was appointed a preacher and apostle and teacher, which is why I suffer as I do. But I am not ashamed, for I know whom I have believed, and I am convinced that he is able to guard until that day what has been entrusted to me. Follow the pattern of the sound words that you have heard from me, in the faith and love that are in Christ Jesus. By the Holy Spirit who dwells within us, guard the good deposit entrusted to you. (2 Timothy 1:8-14 ESV). Many years ago we were given a Ship’s Mantle Clock. It chimes the hour and provides us with a wonderful reminder of past friends and great experiences. We also have a Grandfather Clock, though we have it silenced for the most part in our new home. It not only chimes the quarter hour, but plays a few seconds of Westminster Chimes every hour. While it is beautiful, that is a bit distracting! We can hear the pendulum swinging and the clock ticking each moment of the day in a quiet house. I am reminded of the simple truth that time keeps moving on. It stops for no man, no matter what position or influence you may have. There never seems to be enough time. No matter how good my intentions are at the beginning of the day, I find I run out of time long before I do projects and assignments. We just can’t find enough time. "Time in a Bottle" is a hit single by singer-songwriter Jim Croce. He wrote the lyrics after his wife Ingrid told him she was pregnant with their son, Adrian, in December 1970. It appeared on his 1972 ABC debut album You don’t Mess Around With Jim. ABC originally did not intend to release the song as a single; but when Croce was killed in a plane crash in September 1973, the song's lyrics, dealing with mortality and the wish to have more time, had additional resonance. The song subsequently received a large amount of airplay as an album track and demand for a single release built. When it was eventually issued, it became his second and final #1 hit. If you’re feeling a bit nostalgic and want to listen to the song you can find it at this link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dO1rMeYnOmM. There is one thing we can be sure of: God wants us to be good stewards of our time. The starting point is to know why we’re here. Do you know the answer to that question? We should also develop a sense of clarity about each day. By having a clear purpose, and doing the most important thing each day, God can revolutionize your life and help you make the most of your time. Don’t let the minutes just tock by.

Little Birds and Big Windows

“O Jerusalem, Jerusalem, the city that kills the prophets and stones those who are sent to it! How often would I have gathered your children together as a hen gathers her brood under her wings, and you were not willing! See, your house is left to you desolate. For I tell you, you will not see me again, until you say, ‘Blessed is he who comes in the name of the Lord.’” (Matthew 23:37-39 ESV).

In our new home we have two large windows that face the south. The sun reflects off them in such a way as to provide the perfect “mirror” for the birds that may be flying by. That provides the worst of situations for their safety. Seeing either the reflected sky, trees, or themselves they have already flown into the window several times. So far, none of the encounters have been fatal. I am hoping that covering the windows will help them recognize the danger of a little bird flying into a big window. It never ends well for the bird. I thought after the last loud thump of a bird hitting the window how incredible it might be if I could become a bird for a few seconds and talk its language, I could show it how to be safer. And immediately, as is often the case, God brought me to a Scripture. Our reading today is a picture of Jesus lamenting how he did just that. He became one of us, experienced what we have experienced, and talks our language so that we might not fly into the windows of life. The Creator of the universe became one of His own creatures, a man, in order to communicate perfectly with mankind. Jesus took on a human body and personality, with all its limitations, so you and I could understand how to be free to live and have a relationship with God. This is really what the Incarnation is all about. God chose to reveal Himself to us in the form of a baby, Jesus Christ. It is that time of the year when all the stores begin to display their Christmas goods. I love this time of the year. The bright lights, colorful ornaments, and wonderfully scented pine in the air just seems to make everything better. It always recalls the greatest gift God could possibly have given to us. Jesus became a human being for us. We certainly didn’t deserve such an extravagant gift; we hadn’t done anything to deserve such tender care and sacrificial action; but God came to us in His only begotten Son that we might have life. When we get to know the God who loves us so much that He would humble Himself to become a man, then Christmas always has a sense of wonder. This year, as you hurry through all the preparations and tasks of the season, please take some time to remember the wonder of the Eternal God speaking our language. He is calling you to the shelter of His wings.

Just One Wish

At Gibeon the LORD appeared to Solomon in a dream by night, and God said, “Ask what I shall give you.” And Solomon said, “You have shown great and steadfast love to your servant David my father, because he walked before you in faithfulness, in righteousness, and in uprightness of heart toward you. And you have kept for him this great and steadfast love and have given him a son to sit on his throne this day. And now, O LORD my God, you have made your servant king in place of David my father, although I am but a little child. I do not know how to go out or come in. And your servant is in the midst of your people whom you have chosen, a great people, too many to be numbered or counted for multitude. Give your servant therefore an understanding mind to govern your people, that I may discern between good and evil, for who is able to govern this your great people?” It pleased the Lord that Solomon had asked this. And God said to him, “Because you have asked this, and have not asked for yourself long life or riches or the life of your enemies, but have asked for yourself understanding to discern what is right, behold, I now do according to your word. Behold, I give you a wise and discerning mind, so that none like you has been before you and none like you shall arise after you. I give you also what you have not asked, both riches and honor, so that no other king shall compare with you, all your days. And if you will walk in my ways, keeping my statutes and my commandments, as your father David walked, then I will lengthen your days.” (1 Kings 3:5-14 ESV).

Perhaps you have played the game asking, “If you could make one wish, what would it be?” The answers to that question are usually very revealing. I’ve heard people ask for all kinds of things. Some would say things like, lots of money, a big house, or a motorcycle. I suppose if I were smart I’d say, “I’d wish for unlimited wishes!” Even though that seems to be a great answer, it simply reveals incredible selfishness. Our reading details the story of Solomon being asked that very question by God. God said to Israel’s young King Solomon, “Ask whatever you wish Me to give you.” Solomon chose “wisdom to lead and discernment between good and evil.” God was pleased, knowing he could have asked for wealth or long life. So God granted his wish and a wealthy, long life. Asking God for wisdom is a good request indeed; for so often with wisdom comes great success and the respect of others. The world is drawn to people who are proven to be wise. Strangely we all have been asked that question in a way. And, we all have been given the answer that Solomon was given. We do possess all the wisdom necessary to live a positive and productive life. The Scripture is the repository of God’s wisdom. We don’t lack any answer necessary for a great life. Have you looked to that source?

Brokenhearted and Crushed

When the righteous cry for help, the LORD hears and delivers them out of all their troubles. The LORD is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit. Many are the afflictions of the righteous, but the LORD delivers him out of them all. He keeps all his bones; not one of them is broken. Affliction will slay the wicked, and those who hate the righteous will be condemned. The LORD redeems the life of his servants; none of those who take refuge in him will be condemned. (Psalm 34:17-22 ESV).

There is a relatively new practice developing on the fringe of mortuary preparation of the deceased for wakes and funerals. Though not the first time this has been seen, the body of David Morales Colón was placed on his motorcycle in a peculiar "viewing ceremony" that his family requested after he was murdered in San Juan, Puerto Rico in May, 2012. There have been others documented through the years, but this one certainly seems to have been one of the most extreme. I suppose it may have brought some comfort to the family. The idea may be abhorrent for you to even consider. However, it does underscore a universal truth. Grief from the death of a loved one is always difficult to deal with. It simply isn’t a pleasant thought, but at various points in life many of the people we love most are going to die, parents, spouses, friends, siblings, and sometimes, children. The stats on death are 100%. For everyone who lives, death eventually comes. We don’t want to think about it, but it’s a reality of life. When it comes, we need to remember the stages of grief shock, numbness, denial, anger, depression, and eventually acceptance. The holidays are even more difficult as we experience the empty chair at the table. The emotion can be overwhelming. No wonder the psalmist directs us to the comfort of the Lord. He is the only one who can give us hope in such a trying time. There are also some other practical steps you can take if you are one of those who are going through such a time:  First, remember it’s a process; it can’t be rushed, but it doesn’t last forever.  Second, with the help of God, it can be a time of growth. And, if you don’t know God, get to know Him.  Third, seek the help of others. We all need the support of others to get through it.  Fourth, remember that the first year is the toughest. Don’t try to make major decisions right away; give yourself some time.  Fifth, for the believer, you can live with the hope that you can see them again. Grief is tough, but with God’s help and the help of others, you will make it. Trust in the One who has conquered death forever.

Go Away!

So if there is any encouragement in Christ, any comfort from love, any participation in the Spirit, any affection and sympathy, complete my joy by being of the same mind, having the same love, being in full accord and of one mind. Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves. Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others. (Philippians 2:1-4 ESV). I am often drawn to our reading today for a source of inspiration and encouragement. It seems to be a fathomless well. No matter how often I draw from its wisdom, there is always another cool drink to draw. Today I want to draw from the last verse of the reading. The Apostle Paul encourages us to look to the interests of others. The truth is that our present culture has come to believe this is not a profitable compass for our life. In fact, when it comes to serving others, most tend to live with a mindset that posts a “Do Not Disturb” sign over our heart. We think: “I’m too busy.” “Leave me alone.” “I don’t want to get involved.” “I’ve got my own agenda.”

We have a chainsaw carved bear made in the Smoky Mountains that sits in our family room. It is holding a sign that says “Welcome” on one side and “Go Away” on the other. I have often wondered if I would ever really turn it to the latter of those two sides in seriousness. I suppose that there are times when I need to just tell people to go away. I am sure that no one really wants to be around me when I’m sick and grumpy. That’s usually the time when Mary shuts me in the bedroom and shoves food under the door! But, I would hope that I would never really turn a deaf ear to those around me. Unfortunately I think our culture as a whole feels differently. The prevailing attitude is generally very self-centered. We saw yesterday that self-control is important to success. Today we should also understand that a successful life begins when we realize it’s not all about us. When we get to know our heavenly Father through Jesus Christ, and begin to worship God and serve Him, we realize the way we can deepen our relationship with Him is to serve our fellow man, especially those in need. “It’s all about me” is incredibly selfish, and it leads to emptiness. Sharing your time and talent with others is one of the keys to discovering your real source of joy and happiness. As we approach this season of Thanksgiving and Advent there are many opportunities to share kindness with others. Who will you “welcome” in the weeks to come? You will not be sorry you made the effort to go beyond yourself!

Self-Control

But I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh. For the desires of the flesh are against the Spirit, and the desires of the Spirit are against the flesh, for these are opposed to each other, to keep you from doing the things you want to do. But if you are led by the Spirit, you are not under the law. Now the works of the flesh are evident: sexual immorality, impurity, sensuality, idolatry, sorcery, enmity, strife, jealousy, fits of anger, rivalries, dissensions, divisions, envy, drunkenness, orgies, and things like these. I warn you, as I warned you before, that those who do such things will not inherit the kingdom of God. But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law. And those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires. (Galatians 5:16-24 ESV).

The Apostle Paul is very direct with his admonition to the Galatians in our reading today. Some might even say this was his basic character and approach with everyone. I have often been accused of being like “a bull in a china shop.” There have been many times I have thought that a little subtlety would have been better received, though it may not have been nearly as easily understood. Paul wants to make sure his readers have no ambiguity about the fruit of the Spirit. He is concise and clear. These are the things that lead to successful living. One of those things is self-control. Controlling our emotions, desires, passions, or our tongue is essential to develop. Self-control is about self-discipline. The Bible compares it to sports. It says, “Run your race to win. Everyone who competes in the games exercises self-control in all things.” It does take practice and perseverance. So, let me suggest a few ways to perfect you self-control: First, clarify your purpose. We should always understand what we are trying to accomplish. What’s the end goal? Is it to lose a few pounds? Then your decisions will be shaped by that purpose. Second, be honest with yourself about where you lack self-control. Alcoholics who find victory over their addiction know the first step is admitting their inability to control the problem. It begins with a searching and honest self-evaluation. Third, ask God for self-discipline. No one, no matter how strong their personal resolve can control their inner resolve without the help of the Holy Spirit. Fourth, take action on that discipline, one day at a time. Start taking steps, even small ones, toward the goal. You cannot reach the finish line if you don’t start. Without being too direct, may I say today is a good day to begin your journey?

An Extra Mile

“You have heard that it was said, ‘An eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth.’ But I say to you, Do not resist the one who is evil. But if anyone slaps you on the right cheek, turn to him the other also. And if anyone would sue you and take your tunic, let him have your cloak as well. And if anyone forces you to go one mile, go with him two miles. Give to the one who begs from you, and do not refuse the one who would borrow from you.” (Matthew 5:38-42 ESV). Mary and I have been privileged to travel to some exotic and extravagant destinations through the years. Perhaps the most memorable was in Maui when we spent a week at one of the beach front resorts. It seemed there was always some special treatment being given to us. One day we went to the beach, and before we could get seated, attendants brought us towels and ice water. When I went for a walk along the beach trail, as I re-entered the lobby, a bellman gave me a bottle of water. They kept surprising us with unexpected extra mile service. It was both wonderful and somewhat uncomfortable. After all, it was a stark reminder of how different “real” life was. However, this kind of service demands a greater degree of success. Any corporation, organization, or ministry, where extra mile service is a part of the culture, will have a greater impact for good. Extra mile service goes beyond what is expected. This is the principle of Jesus in our reading. Jesus said, “Whoever forces you to go one mile, go with him two.” Rome ruled their culture, and it was legal for any Roman soldier to ask a civilian to help them carry their armor for one mile at any time. The people greatly resented it. So what Jesus taught, shocked them. But following Jesus calls for extra mile service. Even if you don’t follow Him, that service is always appreciated. Can you imagine the impact this kind of behavior would have in our culture? I wonder what would happen if everyone would take their carts back inside the store, instead of leaving them outside. Oh, I know there are people who get paid from our purchases to take the carts inside, but what would happen if we reversed that course. Or, what would happen if this concept were to become common place in our families. What would it be like if we not only cleaned up after ourselves, but the rest of the family as well? What would happen if we began to practice extra mile service at school or work? The shock might be too much for our teachers or employers! We might be greeted with skeptical doubt as to the motivation of our kindness. Like the wife who was greeted with flowers and chocolate when her husband came home from work, she responded by saying, “Have you been drinking?” Regardless of how unexpected it might be, make your commitment to go the extra mile today in your kindness and graciousness.

The Door to the Sheepfold

So Jesus again said to them, “Truly, truly, I say to you, I am the door of the sheep. All who came before me are thieves and robbers, but the sheep did not listen to them. I am the door. If anyone enters by me, he will be saved and will go in and out and find pasture. The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I came that they may have life and have it abundantly. I am the good shepherd. The good shepherd lays down his life for the sheep. He who is a hired hand and not a shepherd, who does not own the sheep, sees the wolf coming and leaves the sheep and flees, and the wolf snatches them and scatters them. He flees because he is a hired hand and cares nothing for the sheep. I am the good shepherd. I know my own and my own know me, just as the Father knows me and I know the Father; and I lay down my life for the sheep. And I have other sheep that are not of this fold. I must bring them also, and they will listen to my voice. So there will be one flock, one shepherd. For this reason the Father loves me, because I lay down my life that I may take it up again. No one takes it from me, but I lay it down of my own accord. I have authority to lay it down, and I have authority to take it up again. This charge I have received from my Father.” (John 10:7-18 ESV). We’re constantly bombarded with bad news on newscast after newscast. It’s disconcerting to say the least. The harsh reality of the daily news challenges those who believe that man is inherently good and the world is getting better. The Bible tells us the truth. Human beings are not innately good and kind, and society is not progressing toward universal peace and harmony. Man’s sin is a constant reality and if we don’t want to believe it, we can just ignore the news and refuse to lock our doors at night.

It is into this kind of bad news world that the message of Jesus rings clearest and loudest. In our reading today Jesus pictures himself as the “door to the sheepfold.” The picture is one of protection and security in the midst of the turmoil and danger of circumstance and trial. In Jesus’ day the shepherd would lead his flock to the enclosure he had made for the night and to insure their safety, he would sleep across the gate. He became a human “door.” The sheep would not be able to wander off into the night where they would have no defense; and, the predators would not be able to get into the enclosure without going through the shepherd. This is the good news for us. God is in control of history and anyone who acknowledges his need for God in Christ holds the key to inner peace and security. For in Christ, whether we live or die, we can’t lose. Christ gives us the key to eternal life and living this life victoriously. He has already won over our greatest enemy. Even death cannot threaten us as we find our security in him. He insured it by his death, burial, and resurrection. Now, that’s good news!

The Devil Made Me Do It

Blessed is the one whose transgression is forgiven, whose sin is covered. Blessed is the man against whom the LORD counts no iniquity, and in whose spirit there is no deceit. For when I kept silent, my bones wasted away through my groaning all day long. For day and night your hand was heavy upon me; my strength was dried up as by the heat of summer. I acknowledged my sin to you, and I did not cover my iniquity; I said, “I will confess my transgressions to the LORD,” and you forgave the iniquity of my sin. (Psalm 32:1-5 ESV). Many years ago, Flip Wilson developed a comedy routine as the character “Geraldine” whose favorite excuse was “the devil made me do it.” In general this was her excuse for every bad thing she ever did either intentionally or otherwise. That excuse is not original with him, nor to that time period in our history. We see that from the beginning of time. After God confronts Adam about his personal failure, he simply responds by blaming God for giving him the woman who enticed him to eat of the forbidden fruit. It is the first recorded example of this excuse in blaming someone else for our choices.

That excuse is just as rampant in today’s culture as it has ever been. We see feminists who blame men for trouble and men who blame all their problems on women. We see blacks who blame whites for the trouble in their life, and whites who blame blacks for trouble they’re dealing with. Republicans blame Democrats, and Democrats blame Republicans. We have an entire industry, the media, where success seems to be measured by how many people they have adequately blamed. And so many criminals actually defend their actions by blaming the victim for the crime: “She wouldn’t give up her purse, so I had to stab her.” Or “She was asking for it by the way she was dressed.” Our culture features this out-of-control blame game mindset. “It’s not my fault! It’s her fault! It’s his fault! It wouldn’t have happened without her; without him; without the snake!” Since the dawn of mankind, that is a classic unrepentant mindset of man when it comes to our sin. The Scripture is clear. We are merely to acknowledge our sin before God and we will be forgiven completely and forever. Do you blame others for your mistakes and sins or do you confess your actions? The first step to forgiveness from God is acknowledgement of responsibility. Can you take that first step in acknowledging your own sinful deeds to the One who offers unlimited forgiveness? It will help you move away from the blame game to a life of freedom and growth. Come to Jesus today with all of your sin; he will forgive them all and “cleanse you from every unrighteousness” (cf. 1 John 1:9).

This or That?

I rejoiced in the Lord greatly that now at length you have revived your concern for me. You were indeed concerned for me, but you had no opportunity. Not that I am speaking of being in need, for I have learned in whatever situation I am to be content. I know how to be brought low, and I know how to abound. In any and every circumstance, I have learned the secret of facing plenty and hunger, abundance and need. I can do all things through him who strengthens me. (Philippians 4:10-13 ESV). I know you have asked yourself whether you should choose “this or that”? It may be a simple as choosing one brand or another at the grocery; or, as complex as choosing one career path over another. Whatever level of decision you are faced with, comparison can be destructive. It can erode my ability to be content and confident. Theodore Roosevelt said, “Comparison is a thief of joy.” There are certain truths that underlie the apostle’s declaration of contentment in our reading today. They can help do a better job of loving yourself. Practice community more than comparison. A posture of comparison often creates competition in an inappropriate context. Instead of celebrating diversity, comparison often requires that someone be labeled the winner and someone the loser. We view others as competitors instead of companions. Avoid comparison as it produces jealousy and envy. One of the first things I discovered about jealousy is that much of its power is derived from a lack of information or ignorance. At its core, envy is either a lie or an illusion. Jealousy obscures my vision. It demands that I blind myself to the fullness of another person’s life which includes joy and pain, successes and failures, peaks and valleys, flaws and beauty. It is thereby destructive in life. Control unrealistic expectations. It is futile and irresponsible to look at one part of a person’s life and envy it. You have to look at the whole picture, the good, the bad, and the unfortunate. No one’s life is completely free of loss, sadness, pain, shortcomings, disappointments, or insecurities. I’m not saying every life balances out. Some lives have more blessings and some have more suffering and loss. But every life has its relative famines and bounties. Everyone gets some good and some bad. Comparison takes our eyes off the blessings God put into our lives. When we compare our things with others, we get envious and can begin to feel that we deserve more than they do. Comparison cheapens our appreciation for what God has done in our lives, and we can easily shift from gratitude to envy. God wants us to be content with how He has blessed us in life. It is always just right!

Red Rover

Blessed be the LORD, for he has wondrously shown his steadfast love to me when I was in a besieged city. I had said in my alarm, “I am cut off from your sight.” But you heard the voice of my pleas for mercy when I cried to you for help. Love the LORD, all you his saints! The LORD preserves the faithful but abundantly repays the one who acts in pride. Be strong, and let your heart take courage, all you who wait for the LORD! (Psalm 31:21-24 ESV).

“Red rover, red rover, send Sally over” is the chant of a familiar children’s game. You remember the rules, I’m sure. Two teams line up opposite each other, no more than 30 feet apart. The first team agrees to call one player from the opposite team, and chants, "Red Rover, Red Rover, send (player's name) on over!" The person called runs to the other line and attempts to break the chain of children formed by the linking of hands. The problem for some is how those who are chosen are usually the weakest. It’s always easier to “clothesline” the smaller competitor. In that way it is more of a rejection than being chosen. Rejection is a part of life. We all face it, whether trying out for a team and being cut, being fired, or laid off. Toughest of all may be rejection in the family through a divorce, a child feeling rejected by a parent, or one sibling rejecting another. The only solution is through understanding God’s power is sufficient for us to overcome rejection. When we remember that He has already chosen us, any rejection can be dismissed. Let me make some practical suggestions: Trust that God will completely bring good out of the worst rejection. Regardless of how difficult our rejection might be at first experience, God’s promise is to work every experience to our good. Turn away from any feelings of resentment, bitterness, or anger. These emotions become a serious blockade to our peace and self-worth. Someone has accurately remarked: “Bitterness is the poison we swallow while hoping the other person dies.” Practice an attitude of forgiveness to those who reject you. This will produce the strength to move on. Jesus is our ultimate example for dealing with rejection. He chose to forgive on the cross, and He gives us the power to do the same when others reject us. Accept that power and peace.

One Way

“Let not your hearts be troubled. Believe in God; believe also in me. In my Father's house are many rooms. If it were not so, would I have told you that I go to prepare a place for you? And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again and will take you to myself, that where I am you may be also. And you know the way to where I am going.” Thomas said to him, “Lord, we do not know where you are going. How can we know the way?” Jesus said to him, “I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me. If you had known me, you would have known my Father also. From now on you do know him and have seen him.” Philip said to him, “Lord, show us the Father, and it is enough for us.” Jesus said to him, “Have I been with you so long, and you still do not know me, Philip? Whoever has seen me has seen the Father. How can you say, ‘Show us the Father’? Do you not believe that I am in the Father and the Father is in me? The words that I say to you I do not speak on my own authority, but the Father who dwells in me does his works. Believe me that I am in the Father and the Father is in me, or else believe on account of the works themselves.” (John 14:1-11 ESV). There are adherents to a new spiritualist movement, combining all religions, wrapping their arms around Christianity, Judaism, Islam, Buddhism, Hinduism and any other belief they may stumble upon. I guess they are playing the odds, figuring that if they embrace every religion, they’ll stumble their way into heaven! These people are working way too hard to create a connection to God when one is already laid out for them. “But wait!” they would say. “I believe that Jesus, Mohammed and Buddha can all tell us the way to God, and you can’t prove otherwise.”

Well, I believe we CAN prove otherwise. Let me ask you this question: If someone says, “I am the way to God; I am the Truth, I am the Life; no one comes to the Father but through Me.” Would he be lying or telling the truth? Would he be considered an arrogant megalomaniac, or really God? None of the other so-called gods claimed this. Only Jesus did. So, was He right or wrong? If He’s a liar, you don’t want to follow Him. But if Christ does tell the truth and really is the Son of God, His resurrection proves it. The biggest argument to belief in any other means to reconcile with God is the resurrection. Some might retort that we cannot prove Jesus’ resurrection; however, actual events following the death and burial of Jesus indicate otherwise. Just the fact that so many people were willing to die for their belief is proof itself. Who would die for a lie, especially the mode of death they were facing? So, we have to make a decision. We’re either going to accept Him as our Lord and Savior, or follow someone who didn’t even claim to be the Way. You can’t embrace them all; you’ve got to make a choice. What do you choose?

Election Day, 2016

He is the image of the invisible God, the firstborn of all creation. For by him all things were created, in heaven and on earth, visible and invisible, whether thrones or dominions or rulers or authorities—all things were created through him and for him. And he is before all things, and in him all things hold together. And he is the head of the body, the church. He is the beginning, the firstborn from the dead, that in everything he might be preeminent. For in him all the fullness of God was pleased to dwell, and through him to reconcile to himself all things, whether on earth or in heaven, making peace by the blood of his cross. (Colossians 1:15-20 ESV).

I have thought and prayed for some time about what to share as today is Election Day here in the United States. Of all the many things I could share today, I would like to remind you of three things. First, please pray. Pray about your selections if you have not yet voted. Pray for the process to be honest. Pray for the candidates, not just our Presidential candidates but those in other races as well. Pray for Christians to vote. Pray for people to vote based on values and morals, not just voting for someone because of “party lines.” Pray for those working at the polling places. Pray that people make the time to get out and vote. Ask for God’s hand to be upon the entire process. Second, don’t worry. I have at times read reports about this election and felt a twinge of fear for the future. This is such a huge election on so many levels. I have talked to so many people who felt the same way. Speculation of the changes that will come to our nation are wildly different depending on you talk to. We ought to remember that this world is not our home. God is in control, not man. Third, the future has not, and will not be changed. God is in control of that. We do not need to be afraid. The enemy would like for us to be fearful and worry. We can be assured that whatever happens, the One we worship is still the King and He is in control of everything, including this election. Read today’s Scripture again. Jesus has not changed. Jesus will not change. What was true yesterday is still true today and will remain true tomorrow. Of course I am not indicating that your vote doesn’t matter. I am saying that whether your candidate wins or loses, you have not lost anything. Our assurance is not in our government or those who are elected to lead it. Our assurance is in the Son of God, Jesus Christ, who redeemed us and assured us of ultimate victory. So, if you have not voted yet, please go vote today! Then rest assured God has got this!

9 to 5

Bondservants, obey in everything those who are your earthly masters, not by way of eye-service, as people-pleasers, but with sincerity of heart, fearing the Lord. Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the inheritance as your reward. You are serving the Lord Christ. For the wrongdoer will be paid back for the wrong he has done, and there is no partiality. (Colossians 3:22-25 ESV). I’m returning to the reading from yesterday’s Morning Devotional with a brief look at the apostle’s direction to be sincerely good employees. I have been both “the boss” and the employee over the last five decades. There were even times I felt like an indentured servant with an “earthly master.” You may have had such experiences in your jobs.

Over 25 years ago, the movie Nine to Five had a memorable scene in which three secretaries, played by Dolly Parton, Jane Fonda, and Lily Tomlin, have been so abused by their boss that they tie him up and subject him to all sorts of satisfying retribution. Maybe you have had similar fantasies about what you would like to do to your supervisor. Perhaps you work for a demanding, unfair boss who makes your life miserable. It seems that he or she can’t be pleased, no matter how much you do for them. Perhaps you feel both underappreciated and underpaid. Let me make some suggestions how you may deal with those moments of exasperation. First, change your focus and adopt a long-term perspective. Remember that your goal is to please God, not man. You do not really work for the XYZ Widgets Company, you work for the Lord. Second, understand that your work produces glory to the Lord when done well. There may times your employer doesn’t give you the appreciation you deserve. You can be assured that the Lord notices your efforts to glorify His name. The ultimate rewards are found in Him and will not be forgotten. That account will be settled in full someday. Third, remember that, one day, all of us, including your boss will be called upon to give an answer to the Lord. The Apostle Paul simply says, Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the inheritance as your reward. It is an attitude that will make all of life much easier. You will find more energy and greater stamina for all the other things you do in life.

Just Like Me!

Wives, submit to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord. Husbands, love your wives, and do not be harsh with them. Children, obey your parents in everything, for this pleases the Lord. Fathers, do not provoke your children, lest they become discouraged. Bondservants, obey in everything those who are your earthly masters, not by way of eye-service, as people-pleasers, but with sincerity of heart, fearing the Lord. Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the inheritance as your reward. You are serving the Lord Christ. For the wrongdoer will be paid back for the wrong he has done, and there is no partiality. (Colossians 3:18-25 ESV). Last week I heard a wonderful sermon from Mark Mangrem, pastor of Gospel City Church from our reading today. As I began to think about it through the days between then and now, I was struck by the emphasis from the apostle in basic relationships. Even though he had no family of his own, he understood the incredible importance of a proper balance between husbands and wives; parents and children; and, employers and employees. Perhaps the most common lie from which we all suffer is the belief that there is plenty of time to focus on relationships that count. That is rarely the case. Harry Chapin’s classic ballad, Cat’s in the Cradle (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=etundhQa724) follows a man who is just too busy to enjoy his son growing up. He loves his child, for sure, but just like many of us he feels he must focus on his work and goals and life – for the good of the family, no doubt. On the boy’s tenth birthday, the boy begs his father to go in the backyard and play catch with the ball and glove he had just given him. “Not today, got a lot to do,” was the response. But the boy seemed to understand. And as he watches the father he idolizes walk away, the boy smiles and vows that “I’m gonna be like him, yeah, you know I’m gonna be like him.” Many years pass, the father has retired, and the boy now has a family of his own. Dad calls and asks to see him. “I’d love to, Dad, if I can find the time. You see, my new job’s a hassle and kids have the flu. But it’s sure nice talking to you, Dad,” is the reply. “It’s sure nice talking to you.” Dad realizes that his son’s wish has been fulfilled, and “He’d grown up just like me. My boy was just like me.” Time cannot be postponed, only lost. The time to nurture relationships is today. The fall has been particularly busy for us. Just one of the things I have been doing is taking my granddaughter, Faith, to school in the mornings. One day she announced to her twin brother, who must arrive at school an hour before her for athletics, that she likes that ride with me “because grandpa tells me stories.” I wish I could claim that time as intentional. It wasn’t at first. I was just using the time to talk to her and some of the old stories of my childhood and teen years came up. I had no idea she really enjoyed hearing them. I do know now, so the ride to school now becomes an important part of building relationship. What are some ways you can nurture your relationships?

Seabiscuit

Jesus said, “So whatever you wish that others would do to you, do also to them, for this is the Law and the Prophets. Enter by the narrow gate. For the gate is wide and the way is easy that leads to destruction, and those who enter by it are many. For the gate is narrow and the way is hard that leads to life, and those who find it are few.” (Matthew 7:12-14 ESV).

Perhaps you have read the book, or seen the movie, about the famous American racehorse, Seabiscuit. This story is certainly inspiring and also a fascinating glimpse at American social history during the 1930’s. The horses were treated better than the jockeys! These jockeys were paid very little and given poor housing. Of particular note is that they didn’t have any kind of medical care, even though this is one of the most dangerous professions in the world. And I thought to myself, “What a great example of what Scripture is talking about, when it refers to unjust and unfair behavior towards those who God has entrusted to our authority.” The words of Jesus could not be clearer. We are to be fair. But it doesn’t just mean adequate pay and benefits. The employer must treat employees fairly and that fairness extends much further than just pay and benefits. It also means not showing partiality. The principle becomes clear when we see various applications in our lives. If you’ve ever seen a situation where a parent shows favoritism to one child over another, you know how incredibly demoralizing it can be to the entire home. There’s no sense of harmony and health. It works the same way in the workplace. Think of the demoralizing effect partiality has on the employees. It’s the perfect place for the Jesus’ golden rule to be applied, do unto others as you would have them do unto you. I have often used a personal proverb passed to me by my Dad in various situations: You can always catch more flies with honey than vinegar. If supervisors treated employees this way and employees, likewise with supervisors, morale soars, productivity increases, and profits rise. As a matter of fact, because the good owner of Seabiscuit actually treated his jockey this way, the success of Seabiscuit is an inspiring story to this day. Today, take some time and notice how often this truth can be used in your personal interaction with others. Recommit yourself to doing to others what you would want done to you.

Things that Go Bump in the Night

With the merciful you show yourself merciful; with the blameless man you show yourself blameless; with the purified you show yourself pure; and with the crooked you make yourself seem tortuous. For you save a humble people, but the haughty eyes you bring down. For it is you who light my lamp; the LORD my God lightens my darkness. For by you I can run against a troop, and by my God I can leap over a wall. This God—his way is perfect; the word of the LORD proves true; he is a shield for all those who take refuge in him. (Psalm 18:25-30 ESV). Another idiom of interest is “things that go bump in the night.” This one is not difficult to understand since it is so common. However, you may find it interesting to know that it first appeared in a traditional Scottish poem: From ghoulies and ghosties And long-leggedy beasties And things that go bump in the night, Good Lord, deliver us!

There’s a great little story that surfaced recently in my inbox about a harried mom who felt she had been driven crazy by her energetic children and just needed to get away, if even for just a moment. She ran upstairs to her daughter’s bedroom and closed the closet door behind her. And there, in the solitude of the closet she cleansed her mind by letting out a long, loud scream. She immediately felt better and opened the door to leave. Blocking her exit, with eyes the size of saucers, were her three children. Her four-year-old daughter spoke first: “Mommy, I told you there were monsters in there.” The truth is, children and adults fear the dark or the unknown for the same reason. We desire to be in control of our circumstance; therefore, our fears are intensified when we cannot see what is really ahead of us. This is addressed in our reading today. As I wrote yesterday, like a loving father, God promises us He’ll always be with us. He’s there to offer us His hand in life’s darkest hours. He’ll carry us through the darkness and lead us where we need to go. He’ll always be with us. It is a key principle in overcoming our fear of the future. When we feel out of control, that signals the best time of our lives. It is then that the power and strength of God can manifest itself leading us to laugh in the face of all the things that go bump in the night!

Safe and Sound

Because they hated knowledge and did not choose the fear of the LORD, would have none of my counsel and despised all my reproof, therefore they shall eat the fruit of their way, and have their fill of their own devices. For the simple are killed by their turning away, and the complacency of fools destroys them; but whoever listens to me will dwell secure and will be at ease, without dread of disaster.” (Proverbs 1:29-33 ESV). The promise of our reading is that whoever listens to the wisdom of the Lord will be secure. Since I often play with idioms in better communicating the Scripture, I thought I would use the common phrase “safe and sound” for secure. They combine in thought to provide a full expression of the safety God’s will provides for the believer. The dictionary simply translates it as free from damage, danger, or injury; and, having escaped danger or injury; unharmed. Some other common idioms that might have worked would be out of harm's way, on the safe side, snug as a bug in a rug, under one's wing, or bearing a charmed life. I have often seen the fearlessness of young children at play. It seems they know no fear. Perhaps this is just a function of their ignorance. Isaac Stern, the great violinist believed this. Observing a nine-year-old playing the violin amazingly well, he said, “You can’t really tell how an artist will be until the teen years, for that is when fear comes in. Then and only then can you see if the person has courage. You can’t learn courage until you know fear.” Perhaps it is a matter of the ease of faith that children seem to naturally possess. They simply can’t imagine anything but good in their lives. As we age we find more reasons to doubt that truth. Then fear becomes a regular part of our lives. Fear can paralyze us. Finding the courage to overcome it is a real key to successful living. One day, Jesus’ disciples were caught at sea in a storm. They were afraid they wouldn’t make it. Jesus walked out to them and said, “Take courage! It is I. Do not be afraid.” The key to finding courage in the face of fear comes through faith in Jesus Christ. The key to finding the courage to overcome fear is faith. If you are worried, fearful, or despairing, chances are that you are failing to see just how capable and willing God is to keep all His promises to you. Here are two principles to help in your fear: First, God is faithful; He will always be there for you. God’s presence is constant and unfailing. Even when it appears you have been abandoned, you must know that is not the truth. Second, God is all-powerful, and He uses that power for your good. While we may not see that good immediately it is being worked out on our behalf. You are safe and sound! Rest easy in Christ!

White Noise

Give ear, and hear my voice; give attention, and hear my speech. Does he who plows for sowing plow continually? Does he continually open and harrow his ground? When he has leveled its surface, does he not scatter dill, sow cumin, and put in wheat in rows and barley in its proper place, and emmer as the border? For he is rightly instructed; his God teaches him. (Isaiah 28:23-26 ESV).

Many years ago television was not nearly as prolific or developed as it is today. Every evening around midnight daily programming would come to an end with the broadcasting of a picture of the American flag and the playing of the national anthem. Immediately following that, a static picture, or “test pattern,” could be seen with nothing but white noise playing in the background. I remember on those rare occasions when I was allowed to stay up that late and watch TV, I still enjoyed the noise. Noise fills our lives today. We wake to music or alarms. We get in the car and one of the first things we do is start our playlist or surf through the available channels for just the right music or talk show. When we walk into the house or a hotel room, the first thing we do is turn on the TV. It seems that, with noise, we just don’t feel so alone. In the midst of all of this noise it is altogether too easy to miss the most important voice of all. God still speaks in a still, small voice. In the busyness and noisiness of our lives, it’s easy to miss Him. The only way to hear Him is to make an intentional effort to quiet the noise of our lives and spend some time listening, through prayer and reading the Scripture. You will hear any more important communication than that. So, with that principle in mind, let me make a few suggestions: First, find some time each day to be alone and quiet. Be intentional as you seek to listen to the voice of God through the Scripture. It will enrich your life tremendously. Second, choose a specific plan to read the Bible. Don’t randomly pick passages. Use lists of topical listings; read through the Epistles one by one. Above all choose short passages. Too much can be overwhelming. Third, end your time with brief prayer. It may be a short acknowledgment of thanksgiving and gratitude; or, a simple intercessory prayer for others you know in need. You will find the noise subsiding and the clarity of God’s voice compelling.

Today's World

But understand this, that in the last days there will come times of difficulty. For people will be lovers of self, lovers of money, proud, arrogant, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy, heartless, unappeasable, slanderous, without self-control, brutal, not loving good, treacherous, reckless, swollen with conceit, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God, having the appearance of godliness, but denying its power. Avoid such people. For among them are those who creep into households and capture weak women, burdened with sins and led astray by various passions, always learning and never able to arrive at a knowledge of the truth. (2 Timothy 3:1-7 ESV). Well we are winding down the 2016 election cycle; and, before you stop reading today’s devotional, this will not be about any of the candidates or issues voters will cast their ballots for or against by then end of next week. It has been quite an interesting year leading up to the vote. I find it extremely telling that we now have people who do nothing but “fact-check” what is written or spoken in the election process. I also find it very interesting that we have been told over and over again by anyone who has a platform to speak from that these are good times. In some ways they may be very good, however, as we compare our culture to that of the early Christian era there are some striking similarities.

Imagine you are a part of that world, nearly two thousand years ago. It was a time in history, when people were “lovers of themselves, lovers of money, arrogant, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unloving, slanderous, without self-control, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God; holding to a form of godliness but denying its power.” I’m not sure there is any evidence to describe today’s culture any differently. Whether we take our measurements from inside or outside the church, our reading today seems to describe this world very well. This is a description of a time when the Bible talks about the Second Coming of Christ. Of course we don’t know when Jesus is coming again. No one knows, except the Father in heaven. But it sounds like we’re there. Inevitably we must ask ourselves what we should do. How can we change? God’s Word says, “The Scriptures are able to make you wise for salvation through faith in Jesus Christ.” So study God’s Word. Believe what it says about how to be saved from ungodly character. Live what it says, for we all are running out of time. There really is only one solution to the world’s problems. It is the work and will of God through the atonement of Jesus. Trust in Him alone.