Friends Remembered

But since we were torn away from you, brothers, for a short time, in person not in heart, we endeavored the more eagerly and with great desire to see you face to face, because we wanted to come to you—I, Paul, again and again—but Satan hindered us. For what is our hope or joy or crown of boasting before our Lord Jesus at his coming? Is it not you? For you are our glory and joy. (1 Thessalonians 2:17-20 ESV). I have mentioned before how we have been so happy to be “home” again in Texas. We have reunited with many friends and have many more scheduled for the near future. It is great to see them. All of the ability through electronic media and various means of communication is no substitute for seeing the people we love in person. I have also said how difficult it is to have left behind so many friends in Tennessee. I catch myself texting, messaging, or calling folks just to hear their voice again. I must confess that I took for granted being there. I suppose that’s a natural occurrence whenever we move to another location. Paul’s strong expression of emotion in this passage reminds me of that feeling. The separation from loved ones is often difficult. When we yearn to be with people we care for the pain of distance can be heartrending. Paul’s desire to be reunited with the young church of Thessalonica reflects his deep commitment to them. He is not content simply to preach the word, convert people, start churches, and move on to the next place. He wants to stay connected, to see with his own eyes what the gospel is doing where it has taken root. He’s not looking to take credit for his accomplishments; instead, it’s the Christians in Thessalonica themselves who are Paul’s “glory and joy.” It is in these growing disciples that Paul will boast, as he looks forward to the return of Christ. It’s worth pausing to think about all the other things of which Christians are tempted to boast. It is easy to boast in our facilities, our programs, our institutions, our knowledge of scripture; it is simple to boast in our history and heritage. These things aren’t bad, of course, but Paul’s words remind us that what we can really take joy in is sharing the journey of faith with others. What we should rejoice in is this: each disciple growing in faith, and each church community—whether it’s an established group or a ragtag bunch of rookie disciples—growing deeper in its identity in Christ. Today I invite you to spend a little time remembering your friends. You may be prompted to make a call or send a note; don’t delay, do it quickly. Even if you are miles apart, a short word of greeting and encouragement will do you both great good. And, if there are some in your past that you have just lost touch with, reengage. I think you will find that the reward will far outweigh any anxiety you may feel. You both will be rewarded with a taste of heaven.