Then Peter came up and said to him, “Lord, how
often will my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? As many as seven
times?” Jesus said to him, “I do not say to you seven times, but seventy-seven
times. Therefore the kingdom of heaven may be compared to a king who wished to
settle accounts with his servants. When he began to settle, one was brought to
him who owed him ten thousand talents. And since he could not pay, his master
ordered him to be sold, with his wife and children and all that he had, and
payment to be made. So the servant fell on his knees, imploring him, ‘Have
patience with me, and I will pay you everything.’ And out of pity for him, the
master of that servant released him and forgave him the debt. But when that
same servant went out, he found one of his fellow servants who owed him a
hundred denarii, and seizing him, he began to choke him, saying, ‘Pay what you
owe.’ So his fellow servant fell down and pleaded with him, ‘Have patience with
me, and I will pay you.’ He refused and went and put him in prison until he
should pay the debt. When his fellow servants saw what had taken place, they
were greatly distressed, and they went and reported to their master all that
had taken place. Then his master summoned him and said to him, ‘You wicked
servant! I forgave you all that debt because you pleaded with me. And should
not you have had mercy on your fellow servant, as I had mercy on you?’ And in
anger his master delivered him to the jailers, until he should pay all his
debt. So also my heavenly Father will do to every one of you, if you do not
forgive your brother from your heart.” (Matthew 18:21-35 ESV).
Mercy and forgiveness are things that definitely tend to fall into the category of easier to receive than give. It seems to be part of our human nature that when we offend someone, we hope for quick resolution, and if possible, to be let off lightly as far as punishment or retribution goes. Often when the tables are turned though, and we are the ones who are offended, we demand justice, or maybe even vengeance, to some degree. The parable we’ll be looking today is about exactly that, the importance of being able to forgive, just as we have been forgiven.
There is a bit of history and cultural
significance here. The rabbis would
teach that a person is to forgive a person up to three times for committing the
same offense against them. So, for Peter
to suggest seven times here would be going well beyond what was considered
normal, or even appropriate, considering this was not just talking about
forgiving in general but forgiving the same thing over, and over again. Jesus’
answer, however, went even further than Peter’s suggestion. Depending on the translation being used, he
either said to forgive seventy times, or seventy times seven. Thankfully, the interpretation as to what the
number should be isn’t that important, the bigger idea is that the number is
far higher than what would be taught, even suggesting that there is no limit,
we are to forgive every time a person offends us.
Sometimes, that doesn’t make sense, why
should we keep allowing ourselves to be hurt by the same person, without any
call for justice or retribution? There
are a few answers to that. One, it’s
what we desire for ourselves, and two, the desire is that the other person will
recognize the grace they are receiving and be moved to change, even to extend
the same grace to others. Third, it is the example of god’s forgiveness toward
us for the greatest debt anyone could owe. I’ve heard well said like this: “Jesus
paid the debt I could never pay; and died the death that I deserved.” Truth
indeed.
Take care to be a forgiving servant!