Learning from the Wisdom of Others

 

The way of a fool is right in his own eyes, but a wise man listens to advice. The vexation of a fool is known at once, but the prudent ignores an insult. Whoever speaks the truth gives honest evidence, but a false witness utters deceit. There is one whose rash words are like sword thrusts, but the tongue of the wise brings healing. (Proverbs 12:15-18 ESV).

 

I have discovered over the years how little I really know. My Dad was a great teacher for me in my early years. I loved many of the same things that he loved and thus found myself trying to learn as much about those things as I could. Whether it was an outdoor activity like fishing or hunting, or work related in the meat market of the store we owned, I tried my best to watch and listen to him. In fact, I often tried to mimic him exactly as I attempted to be as good as he was. Through those conversations and lessons, I learned that wisdom is something we gain from those who have gone before us.

 

Observing others’ successes and mistakes can provide valuable lessons. We often think we must figure everything out on our own, but wisdom invites us to learn from others. Proverbs helps us see that surrounding ourselves with wise mentors and friends can profoundly help in our decision making and growth.

 

There were times when I didn’t heed the advice I was given, and I faced hard consequences. Looking back, I can see how pride and stubbornness can cloud judgment, leading to avoidable mistakes. Learning from others calls for humility and openness, recognizing that we don’t have all the answers. God places people in our lives to guide and teach us. And, the Bible is filled with stories of people who learned valuable lessons through their experiences—both good and bad. By observing their examples, we gain insight into living wisely and faithfully.

 

It is never too late to find the wisdom of others that God has placed in your life. Look for them. Learn from them. Live a life that is filled with the healing of their wisdom.